my step mom is evil!!!?

Question

ok i try to b nice bc my dad likes her but she is evil!!! My sis and brother hate her to and every1 i talk to does too!! Well she yells at me if i tell my dad stuff she does! she says that if i tell him i will get in trouble!! She hates me and i know it sounds like i am being childish but she trys to hurt my feelings and brings the guy i love in to everything. I told my dad n he said she just wants to hurt my feelings but then why doesnt he say sum10 to her??? help me

Answer 1

Techincally, she can't really punish you, considering you aren't really her child. I don't have custody over my stepchild, my husband does. Unless your mother was willing to hand over custody of you to her.

Answer 2

Nothing harder than a step mom. Lots of time they are jealous of the children in the family, and protective of their position. They end up stepping on family traditions, and there are usually alot of hurt feelings.
Yes, I ended up with a difficult step mom as well. I agree that your dad needs to step up and support you, but it is hard for him to take sides without exacerbating the situation, since your stepmom may feel that there is an us vs them attitude. This is a very sticky situation.
You may need to spend alot of time out of the house, to give yourself a break. Walking away from unpleasant situations, like her yelling, can keep you sane. It would be great if you had a dog, everytime she starts on you you just say you need to walk the dog, and out you go. She will stop if you are not available to her.
However, you have to give her something too, say you cook dinner one night a week, do laundry, do something saintly. Then she will lose ammunition, and you can kill her with kindness, which is very irritating for there is no response that will not make her look bad and you look good!
Hang in there, it does get better.

Answer 3

its just like the movie "Problem Child 2". have you seen any movies when this type of thing happens? that is the major conflict in the movie, now picture yourself as the victim. what happens at the end of the movie that the victim resolves the conflict and turns out to be a happy occasion.

P.S.: if you're dad had never divorced this would have never happened!!!! you might wanna tell him that!!! if you real mom and your dad got married in the first placed and knew they were right for each other then they would've never have divorced!!! you can't just marry a person unless you really know that person is the person you want to spend the rest of your life with!!! besided it is a sin to marry someone else when you are divorced!! THE SIN OF ADULTERY!!!!

Answer 4

Well i have plenty experience in this being now that its been 8 years since my dad got married, what u do is treat her like dirt tell your dad its either u or her, its not fair if ur dad loves u he would stay with her,i know because if u dont do anything u and ur dad will be seperarted for ever and never will see eye to eye again i know
i hope i been a help to ya if u need more advise email me

Answer 5

How long have you been living with your step mom? Has she always been this way? sometimes when something new comes in to our lives we tend to reject them and tend to see only the negative. Have you tried to look at her positive side? Your dad won't marry her if he thinks she's not good for the family. Give her a chance. If by someway you can't see anything positive things about her then its best to talk with your dad about how you feel. It is unfair though on your side to be living with someone you can't get along with . Be strong!

Answer 6

I had the same problem a couple of years ago it went on for like 4 years, my step mom use to be constantly on my back insulting me, mocking me and yelling at me like everyday for nothing it was so annoying but I talked to my dad and he eventually left her...my advice would be to try and talk to your dad tell him how she makes u feel like I did..i wish u luck I know how u feel...

Answer 7

Can you live with your mom? It sounds as if your dad is choosing your step mom over you. It should be the other way around. You need to get out of there! She may start physically abusing you next!

Answer 8

she tries to hurt your feelings on purpose?? well if i were you, i'd hurt her back mentally with my sibllings as a back up. dont listen to her, ignore her, and anything else that will stress her. IF SHE DOES THAT TO YOU, YOU SHOULD TOO!!!!!!! and if she hurts u physically, then ur siblings will definitely help by attacking her the same way she hit u. stick together with ur siblings in this situation. Oh and by the way, i dont think talking to ur dad in this situation wont help much. Since ur stepmom and he r married, he will also care for her and sometimes believe her more than he will believe u. I hope ur stepmom wont act like this anymore!!!!

Answer 9

Oh boy, i might have thrown the e book at her. i think undesirable for you, she rather does sound like an evil step mom. usually i might say to maintain the peace and basically throw out the e book and ignore the entire factor yet subsequently she feels like she desires a sturdy chatting with. provide her a lump of coal the subsequent Christmas.

Answer 10

By law she cannot punish you, you are not her child. She should never tell you not to tell you Dad anything that is wrong to, so ignore her and tell him anyway.

She is jelous of you so she will do these things to you, but you stand your ground and make sure you are extremely nice to her no matter what she does, however, that does not mean that you have to take abuse. If she is abusing you you need to report it whether she gets mad or not.

Answer 11

Cinderella Cinderella Night and Day its Cinderella. JK I was totally kidding.
i would go to the police. That is pretty much child abuse. Just verbally. Seriously, you should take this seriously. You can go to a close friend or relative to get on your side or go to authoritys