Should an exboyfriend completly turn on you for no reason even if your break up was mutual?

Question

why would you break up with someone and say we can still be friends but act like you cant get along with me? We should still be good friends because we broke up over distances issues. So should i ask him whats wrong with him? I still want to be friends because there is nothing wrong with us being friends we just cant date. We both agreed that it was hard being together but that should not be a reason that things between us should be bad. we had agruments but i always apologize and he forgave me. I asked if he would ever go back out with me(just hypothetically) then he asked what was i doing over the summer. What? I just want to be friends and he is ignoring me like he cant deal with me, nothing is that bad between us. What should I do?Also, he said he wanted to see other people later on. Then he said right now wouldnt be a good time to have a girlfriend. Im glad because we are better of as friends

Answer 1

He is probably working on a different relationship, and finds you to be a distraction. Not enough time to be friends with you and concentrate on a new relationship

Answer 2

i think it is hard to be just friends with someone u love, thinks he did not want the breakup, and having to see u and remain friends is not getting him over it. he is having a hard time dealing with the way things are, just being friends. right now would not be a good time to see others because he is not over u yet.

Answer 3

Just leave it plain and simple. Be his friend and let it be just that. Go out and date and allow him to date others. If the two of you are meant to be together later down the road, it will be. No sense in fretting over the small stuff. Bigger things than that in life.

Answer 4

sounds like he is a little confused...just tell me why you apologized to him all the time...discussions and arguements go both ways...wasn't he guilty of being wrong at all?
i think he needs some work and you are better off without him...find someoone you can have a serious relationship with...remember, when you meet some on the internet you aren't really getting to know them, you are only getting to know what they want you to know...just forget about him...if he contacts you and wants to be friend then so be it, but don't chase after him

Answer 5

You're dealing with his fragile male ego. When a relationship ends--no matter how amicably--few couples can preserve a friendship without some "healing" time. Give him some space. Be patient. Be empathetic. But don't push it. If it's meant to be that you remain fiends, eventually, he'll come around.

Answer 6

You both have lots of conflicting issues....attraction, desire, resentment, jealosy....all that stuff is hard to deal with. better to create some distance, then plan a reunion of sorts and see if there is really a friendship or not.

BTW, old boyfriend sex is the BEST, especially if he's with someone now!

Answer 7

In my opinion you have done all you can at this point, I would say the best thing to do is just tell him that the door is always open if he would like to still be friends and then just leave it at that.

Answer 8

He still loves you, he is just hurt.
Remember in primary school, when a boy pulled your hair it meant he liked you, well this is kind of the same, instead, you have hurt him and he does not want anybody to know, so he thinks if you hates you the pain will go away.

Answer 9

I say move on and stop worrying about being friends with your ex. Get other friends! He might just not be able to be friends with someone he used to date. Accept that it's over, and move on. And let him move on, too!

Answer 10

some people just can't deal being friends with someone they had a relationship with. leave him alone, he will come around sooner or later.