idk what to do. my friend has been flirting with the guy i like. i tell her what shes doing and she sais i'll try to stop and that its just a habbit to flirt with people. she told me to remind her when she did and whenever id i do she says that wasnt flirting. and i'll tell her it is and she denies it. she said she doesnt like him even before she knew i liked him she said this. i dont want him to start to really like her because she is flirting. she knows i like him and she cant be doing this. we just went through a problem with our frinedship and idk if i can really trust her now. shes trying to be my friend again and i want to give her a chance. but this is making me really mad. how can i get her to stop if talking to her about it wont work? she also says that some people have said he likes her i ask her who and she just says idk but people have told me. idk if i should beleive that. im just really mad about what shes done. even if i stop being her friend it doesnt stop her flirting
2007-02-26 10:06:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ur friend is a ho... lol
u better make moves on this guy or it is game over...
2007-02-26 10:10:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok.. her saying that she has heard that he likes her should have been the light bulb going off for you. She obviously enjoys the attention regardless of if she likes him back or not. If you have told her before that you don't appreciate her flirting, but she continues to do it and then says she isn't... there's something not right with that. She is obviously either really really naive herself- I doubt- or she just doesn't care about your friendship as much as she cares about flirting and attention from boys. She may even have an ego issue and wants him to not like you even if she doesn't want him.. women can be greedy like that. You say you've had problems in your friendship before? I think she's not the greatest friend if she can't respect you and back off of him. Supposedly if you weren't her friend the flirting would still continue...thats something you just have to deal with. Sorry its the truth. I say you leave her alone, or stay a little distant for a while and see what happens.
2007-02-26 18:13:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could let the guy know you're interested in him. That way he at least knows that both of you are options for him. He should be given the chance to make decisions for himself.
What exactly is she doing that you consider flirting but she doesn't? Some people are so used to flirting they don't know they're doing it. If it's just a matter of leaning in closer when she's talking to him, smiling more than normal, and touching his upper arm or back during conversation, it really might be innocent, but if she's making sexual/romantic jokes, saying things like "If you and I were dating...", winking, adjusting her clothes when he appears to be more appealing, or anything really overt, it's more likely to be on purpose.
Give her a chance, but don't let her control the whole situation herself. Feel free to take control and go after the guy yourself. Try hanging out with him when she's not around.
2007-02-26 18:14:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say but if she flirts with him or not, and he likes her then he likes her and there is nothing you will be able to do to change his mind. When someone likes someone it isn't easy to change there mind, so if she is doing it and not trying to flirt then he still likes her and it won't matter because he already has his eye on her, and why would you want to go out with him if he is thinking about her? I would just forget about him and tell her to go for it, and then see what she does. If she isn't after him she will be the same to him, if she was trying to interfere with the 2 of you then she will stop being flirty with him and then you will know she was just stabbing you or she will go out with him, either way you will be better off.
2007-02-26 18:14:21 · answer #4 · answered by Tigerluvr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's challenging you. Don't give up, strike a deal with her. Tell her you don't want to lose the friendship, but you also like the guy very much. Challenge her. Flirt like her. Prove yourself worthy! Its the process that shows your in love. If it was that easy to get what you want the world would be in ashes coz everybody needn't strive for what they want. Go for it! Fight it!
2007-02-26 18:12:03 · answer #5 · answered by ian@blueice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your boyfriend about it. If you really like him, and he's really into you just share all of your feelings about it, I'm sure if he likes you he'll do something about it if your "friend" won't. And maybe if you choose to talk to your friend, maybe not be so nice. I'm not saying rip her head off, but just let her know you're serious. I hope I helped you in some way. Good Luck!
2007-02-26 18:11:21 · answer #6 · answered by bababadIDEA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.i think you should sit down with her and ask her whats going on.if she still goes on in her stubborn way and doesn't open up, then it's just her problem. then you have to get that guy fast, before he gets interested in her. flirt more than she does.. maybe ask him out yourself, etcetera but i think that your friend is going through some weird stage, maybe she needs your help? or maybe she really isn't your friend and secretly dislikes you? idk either, but try...
2007-02-26 18:14:09 · answer #7 · answered by J L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is probabley just jealouse so here are 2 ways to solve this get even or stop talking to her and mabey shell see wat you are saying or the other way GET EVEN is find out who she likes and flirt with him
and if she talks to you about tell her that it is how you felt and that u will stop if she stops okay and good luck
2007-02-26 18:11:55 · answer #8 · answered by kilii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u should start flirting with him and then if you feel you have a chance ask him out
2007-02-26 18:15:16 · answer #9 · answered by country-gurl_20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) guys aren't worth fighting for. Either tell your friend to back off, or let her have him, if he likes her, then be happy for your friend. If he doesn't, then you can try to get him.
sometimes you gotta swallow your pride and let things be.
2007-02-26 18:12:16 · answer #10 · answered by d_ro 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should never fight over a guy expecially with your friend.. its just to many problems of jelousy. i think you guys both should juss stop talking to him all together
2007-02-26 18:09:28 · answer #11 · answered by anne h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋