get breast implants. I have mixed feelings about them. My whole life I have thought poorly about women who get them. It's fake. But recently I have been unsecure about the size of mine (32 C). My fiance made a coment about me not being able to fill a blouse we saw at a store that he thought was sexy. My cousin jsut got them and it seems more exceptable and they look nice. I just don't know if it is right for me.
2007-02-26 10:06:01 · 9 answers · asked by kv 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok for most guys it's a case of quality not quantity and 32C is pretty much perfect in my opinion. I've give some As and Bs the once over and they were pretty nice but Cs are the perfect combination of quality and quantity. (which reminds me I haven't got any in a while...boo)
Anyhow a friend of mine got hers done. She went from a B to a D. She has an absolutely tiny frame and was a total man eater before the operation but now she is just plain dangerous. She always had a complex about her baps and is very pleased with her new ones. I advised her against it because I thought she was perfect to begin with but she wasn't interested.
If it's something you really want to do then you should seek medical advice and see what the implications are. They will usually make you wear a prosthetic bra for two weeks so you will see what it's like to live with bigger baps. That might be a first step so you can see how you feel with them and how you get on with carrying the extra weight around with you. They will affect everything you do especially sports.
Finally I think your fiances remark was cruel and unfair. He would be deeply offended if you made a similar remark about his manhood and he should really buck up his ideas.
2007-02-26 10:15:57 · answer #1 · answered by Joe1664 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...you never mentioned your age....I have never wanted any plastic surgery myself, ....um.... I don't know, it feels good to like my self the way I am.
It is kind of a personal decision, you have to live with your self and be happy.
I will tell you what happened to one of my friends. She saw her sister in law get them, and it was new and exciting to her, so my friend got them, and really went crazy with the low cut blouses and all, any way to make a long story short, 10 years passed, and my friend gained weight, well guess what? when you gain weight, you gain all over, so then ...she hated her breast, because she could not get in to those cute small tops. So...then my friend goes to get them re done ( because after all 10 or more years have passed, ) so she asks the doctor to make them a little smaller...he does, but after the swelling goes down...they are still too big for her, so ......she goes back 4 months down the road, and has them taken out . NOW she can fit into those skimpy little tops, but she also lost weight, . So ...can you imagine the money she spent on all those surgeries??? Oh God!
I am so happy to just be me.
2007-02-26 10:24:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO. Don't do it. If you fiance can't deal with what you have then he doesn't need to marry you. Especially don't get them done for him. He should take you as you are. He knew all about your breast before he asked for your hand in marriage so why is he trippin' now? Don't evn worry about it. First it starts with the breast then it'll be something else later on. Forget about it and just continue doing what you doing. If all else fails get a padded bra or something it's really not a big deal.
2007-02-26 10:12:39 · answer #3 · answered by ltwatkins77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow this is a tough one as a guy I don't like them as a girl you have a right to do what makes you happy Have you tried exercise and the old we must we must thing? again lifes short do what you want if your boyfriend love you he should love you the way he met ya cause as much as all guys would love it we can't just go to a wife store and say....I'll take that body and them **** and that *** so hey ask him if he really loves you or your breast.
2007-02-26 10:13:40 · answer #4 · answered by mike g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you even know how many risks there are to getting implants? You can even become paralized! Before you do it, check online about the risks of what can happen to you. This is a HUGE step to do.
2007-02-26 10:41:30 · answer #5 · answered by Leena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the worst that could happen? If you don't make that move, you'll be kicking yourself later -- and there's a way to make it that's casual, low-key and low-risk, too. Go for it!
2007-02-26 10:09:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mine are 32 c and they are always considered "perfect". so what if your fiance made a comment..do what YOU want to do.
2007-02-26 10:12:17 · answer #7 · answered by imcold07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get them... and then get a better fiance...
personally, i wouldnt go in for unnesscary surgery unless i really thought it would improve the quality of my life.
2007-02-26 10:11:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not try with prosthesis. Then dress normally with new curves. See what you think.
2007-02-26 10:10:11 · answer #9 · answered by bigjohn B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋