My girlfriend dumped me after going out for a year. Its only been 2 days and now she's hanging out with her ex-boyfriend who raped her. He's getting her a tattoo and she says she's moving in with him. She didn't even go to school today. This guy is already out of school. She won't talk to me and she won't listen to her friends or family. I'm really worried about her and I don't know what to do?
2007-02-26 10:03:15 · 16 answers · asked by Magnicious 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's past gone! He has a hold on her mentally. The best thing you can do is move on.
2007-02-26 10:06:25 · answer #1 · answered by char__c is a good cooker 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
...sorry to hear this story honestly. Understand her mind is not well,...but she's also permitted and allowed to be not well...it's her choice. God I hate choices sometimes. She'll be crawling back to you eventually once this *** treats her quite badly again. I've never understood women that like being treated badly anyways. It's a self esteem problem mostly...not to mention the danger in this guy. Bad boys aren't generally chosen for their long term commitment rituals. They're usually the flavor of the moment. You don't wanna be with an unsettled woman like this anyways. Once they cheat on you,...they'll do it to you again and again. Leave while you still have your sanity,...and find a really sweet woman instead. You'll be glad for yourself and everyone concerned if you do. You don't need a ***** like this on your arm dude. Good luck partner.
2007-02-26 10:15:39 · answer #2 · answered by scott s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be worried 2 but as a concerned friend, stay out of this if u still like her, maybe ur clouding ur better judgement, but if u care as a friend try 2 talk 2 her about it. Tell a responsible adult and find a new girlfriend dude. Best wishes (WInk Wnk!)
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2007-02-26 10:11:49 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if I were you I already would have tapped this guy to a chair and hit him with a bat a few times, but I'm pretty old school. However, you know she is going to get hurt, violence is not always the best answer, but if you dont step in there is no guarentee someone else will.
2007-02-26 10:08:20 · answer #4 · answered by Sir 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let her go, and move on. Some women especially after a traumatic episode like being raped enter into a destructive pattern from which they will never get out of. Trust me you don't need that in your life.
2007-02-26 10:06:56 · answer #5 · answered by sinkablehail1978 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i HEAR YA DUDE I FEEL YOUR PAIn..IM was IN THE SAME CRAP...they Feel like THEY GOTTA REBEL after A breakUP just like Britney SPEARS..my girl banged some dude the first nite we were done,,and also started hanging out with a dude that raped her.just .like.u....it was SICK...give her a few days..try to get in some kinda contact.. she is in her rebellion masking her feelings stage right now..u prob should let her go..but if you love love her then try to contact..if u dont..let her fall..let her make her own mistakes.. later dude
also..it will take very strategic talking and reasoning with her to get her to come around..you may not have enuff education or experience to be able to do this..usually on a professional like a psychologist could...so.. dont worry if she dont..its not your fault... work on your own life...
2007-02-26 10:09:10 · answer #6 · answered by b4i_fku-r-u-18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Odd, It reminds me of a story of a girl at school who was raped by a frat guy, then had sex with him a few weeks later.
There's not alot to do for her. It is her choice and she will face the consequences of her immaturity.
Protect yourself and try to escape from her.
2007-02-26 10:06:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Too late, let her go. Apparently she is OK with living in a trailer park. Move on, you are better than her.
2007-02-26 10:11:30 · answer #8 · answered by Paul S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i could want to start up off with this, once you're are in a courting, your lady ought to have absolute liberty to do despite the fact that she needs to do. attempting to regulate her is of little need, considering you will no longer be waiting to work out what she does in specific circumstances. that's sparkling that this lady has a undeniable activity for this "pal". it incredibly is tough to confess, yet no longer doing so would be the comparable component as putting your self a blindfold and fake that no longer something is taking place. She needs to dangle with this "pal"? mind-blowing, she has all of the suitable to attain this. yet, in the different hand, you have the suitable to chosen in case you want to be with a woman that hangs with different adult men at your component or no longer. of course, you do no longer want to sense jealous approximately it, and additionally you do no longer want to be suspicious approximately that different guy she needs to dangle out with, and approximately your lady protecting her intentions approximately this guy with you. do no longer mistake this with an lack of self belief. Getting overly jealous approximately different adult men drawing near her could be an lack of self belief. Getting jealous a pair of guy putting out including your lady is a demonstration that something's incorrect and action ought to be taken. and prefer a mentioned formerly, attempting to persuade her to no longer try this's of little need. Going blindfolded with this lady is of little need as nicely. What i could advise you do is to take a seat, think of in case you want to be with a woman that has activity in yet another guy, take your emotions under consideration, and be sure in case you want to proceed with this lady or no longer. you're able to be able to need
2016-12-18 11:30:48 · answer #9 · answered by balcom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not your business. Pray she gets help.
2007-02-26 10:05:45 · answer #10 · answered by starryeyed 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋