Okay, so I've been having my doubts about the relationship I'm in so I was already thinking of breaking up with him. Now I'm stuck because my boyfriend is getting a haircut that everybody says is going to look awful, and if I break up with him before or even after, he's likely to think that his hair was the reason (even his friends said so). I know that even if I tell him it wasn't the hair, he's likely to not believe me. What should I do? <3
2007-02-26 09:55:04 · 10 answers · asked by The Prep 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've given this answer to lots of people. If you think that your interests are gone and you want to move on, I would go with your instincts. Whether or not he gets a haircut wouldn't have anything to do with it. If you'd rather move on, then there's your answer. Let he and his friends think what they want after you break up with him; that tells me they're shallow to start with, plus, you know when you've had enough of something that just isn't right for you! Best wishes!!
2007-02-26 10:00:21 · answer #1 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh good grief, are you serious? What kind of person would break up with someone over a haircut and what kind of person would think that they were being broken up with over a haircut! Jeeminy. Tell him now (pre-haircut) that you are having your doubts about the relationship and you think it's better if you break up. If he's so dumb that he thinks you broke up with him over the haircut, obviously his hair is growing on the inside of his skull too. Who cares what he or his friends think. If you're not happy, break up with him. What he thinks or doesn't think is not your problem.
2007-02-26 18:00:53 · answer #2 · answered by Vexer D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL, if that's what he chooses to believe then that's his problem. You know that's not the reason. Tell him the reason you are breaking up with him. His personality, lack of attention to you . . . whatever the reason it is. IF you feel you need to give him one. You don't.
If you've talked this over with his friends, he knows you are about to break up with him anyway. He may beat you to it and break up with you first.
2007-02-26 18:01:45 · answer #3 · answered by briardan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well then if you don't like him just break up with him already, your stressing over soem dumb stuff because your afraid of making him think that your breaking up with him cuz of his hair, if you don't like him end it and don't worry about it if he gets all butt hurt or not, he's still getting heart broken for his hair and because of you, so just end it.
2007-02-26 18:00:47 · answer #4 · answered by Lilmamasita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is cutting his hair your not in love with him its his hair tell him the truth then get a steppin and find someone else or
tell him your feelings and what other ppl say then tell him that watever you do you still love him but be careful because if your mad about him gettin a hair cut it aint a relationship!
2007-02-26 18:00:34 · answer #5 · answered by Saber 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok if he thinks that then he doesnt see what is really going on in this relationship you just need to get out of this....the dude sounds like he is all into himself and not into you or the relationship!
2007-02-26 17:59:28 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Ashley♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he wont believe you then its his problem. You need to tell him exactly why your gonna break up with him.
2007-02-26 18:03:43 · answer #7 · answered by Danny S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't delay ending it because it's going to get harder the longer u postpone it! just tell him!
2007-02-26 17:59:52 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs. Spalla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be honest to him and yourself. If he chooses not to believe that's on him, its not for you to worry about.
2007-02-26 18:00:22 · answer #9 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel. tell him the reasons why you want to end it. dont just let him hang there.
2007-02-26 17:59:01 · answer #10 · answered by amy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋