That is, social status, intellect, comport, drive etc?
2007-02-26 09:41:30 · 12 answers · asked by wittybaby 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think it sounds like they'll wanna date you, if you're saying that. Get over yourself.
Sorry that's kind of mean. Yeah, I think you definatley can. You could probably even help them out.
Give it a chance. You don't wanna miss an opportuninty. You could regret it. People can surprise you, that's one thing I've learned from high school
2007-02-26 09:44:58 · answer #1 · answered by Futbol_jogabonita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand where you are coming from. That's the way I felt when I first started dating the man that is now my husband. I knew that I was very attractive. I've always gotten any guy I wanted. I have a college degree and I skipped grades in school. I've always excelled in everything I've done. And I'm not being snotty or arrogant. I'm just a driven person. I achieve whatever I attempt, and I strive to do a lot. My appearance is well-kept as well as the rest of my life--b/c I make it that way!!
When I first started dating my husband, I just knew it wasn't going to work. I had always dated the "pretty boys" who looked and dressed like male models and were more concerned about the whiteness of their smile than I was. (Which was annoying.) And they were always intellectual with huge goals. My husband was a construction worker who dropped out of high school. He shaves maybe once a week, and it's rare that he's seen with a shirt on that has no stains or holes. He was the opposite of anyone I would have imagined myself ever being with. And I did have the attitude that I was "better" than him. Not that my person was better, but that my life was better b/c I had worked harder to make it that way. He was a former-druggie and was actually on parole!! Seriously!! And I'm going to law school!!
So, yeh, I didn't think it would ever happen or work if it did. Needless to say, I got to know him and we became the best of friends. We are married now, and I'm happier with him than I ever was with one of those pretty boys. I can be more relaxed and have more fun with my husband than I ever did in former relationships. I finally learned that it has nothing to do with your stance in life---it just has to do with who you are as a person. If the guy is a good person, then give him a shot. He could be the best guy you ever dated.
2007-02-26 18:17:45 · answer #2 · answered by Cy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's a better question, what makes you think that high social status, inteligence, comport and drive make you better than people who don't have these things in such high levels?
You need to learn whats important first! Then you can decide if you want to date him or not
2007-02-26 17:48:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I could. But this person needs to have a drive, goal and vision about his life too and I will stand by him for this. This type of person usually will have a success later in life and able to appreciate everything that he has achieved.
If there is no effort from his side, I'm afraid I wont consider to date him at all.
2007-02-26 17:47:04 · answer #4 · answered by SYDTX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are, that person will always feel insignificant to you. If you want to be with someone of a different social status then don't rub it in the persons face that you are better. Be humble and treat the person how you would want to be treated.
2007-02-26 17:46:04 · answer #5 · answered by AmandaHugNKiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see things like that - I'm no better than anyone else. I put my pants on and have all the same body functions everyone else does. If you don't want to miss out on someone that could be your perfect match you had best learn to get over that.
2007-02-26 17:45:24 · answer #6 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh......Sure i don't see why not, with every ramification?. I feel that whoever you are with, the person that is not as good as you. Could use you as a positive role model, however if you told him this, you think he would stay with you? You are very arrogant. I'm sure you don't need me to tell you this though.
2007-02-26 17:45:50 · answer #7 · answered by aphotic nostrum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would they want to date you....knowing that you think you are better than they are? Nobody is better than anybody else. If you truly feel you ARE better than others, then you need to get a healthy dose of reality.
2007-02-26 17:47:32 · answer #8 · answered by kj 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell Yeah, You probaly can teach them to be just as good as you.
2007-02-26 17:45:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah
2007-02-26 17:44:52 · answer #10 · answered by Symbolic User 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋