There is this girl I like, but i barely ever talk to her. And when ever another guy touches her or talks to her I get really mad and feel like killing someone. I have really really good looks though and a nice personality. Im quiet though. sometimes I feel like norman bates or travis bickle. is this normal?
2007-02-26 09:30:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
everything seems normal but you need to work on your anger.......you cant loose what you never had and you cant get what you want unless you go for it.life is a lot shorter then most realize.go spend it with her.
2007-02-26 09:34:57 · answer #1 · answered by Steven J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean, as far as the being a quiet type of a person. I'm not the most out-going person in the crowd either.
However, as far as wanting to kill somebody for touching or talking to this girl... You really need to calm down. Let's take a look at a couple of facts here:
1) You said you're the quiet type, this could make it difficult for her, or anyone else, to interpret your feelings for her.
2) Second, she's not yours! As much as you may care for her, she is not your wife, that means that you have no claims to her... no more than anyone else does. If you began to date her, and she reciprocated the feelings of liking you, then it would be a bit of a problem if she was being touched by someone else.
3) Talking should never be a problem. How would you feel if someone was so jealous of your attention that you could never ever talk to another girl for purely social reasons?
4) Even if you really like this girl, what if she's not the one for you? Consider what an act of violence would accomplish if it turns out that this girl either doesn't like you (I'm not saying that she doesn't), or that she isn't the one for you... Nothing would be accomplished other than that you might look like a big jerk to the people around you.
Just consider all of your options carefully before you act on these kinds of things!
2007-02-26 17:47:28 · answer #2 · answered by drownedingrace 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Very much, but try to talk to this girl. Get up all your courage to say something simple like, "I messed up my history notes... could I borrow yours?" This is a common pickup line and the girl might know this, so if she likes you at all she will let you borrow them. She might just hand you the notes without a word if she likes you and is shy. Don't push her to talk, but do talk yourself. Not in any classes together? Don't sweat it. Find any moment where you to are alone/with few people to strike up a conversation about anything. At a sporting event? Ask her her favorite sport. At hangout and bump into her? Tell her it's nice to see her. She might seem scared and nervous at first, and like I said, don't push her. Give her time and space and if she likes you she will come out of her shy shell. If you continue to have conversations and enjoy each other's company, go for it and ask her out. If she says no? Don't freak. She might just feel insecure. Don't go and try to change for her. She'll notice and not like it, garuntee. Whatever you do, don't freak.
2007-02-26 17:43:15 · answer #3 · answered by LUVxLIKExWINTR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you have an anger problem, you just really like this girl. Just get over your shyness and talk to her. You OBVIOUSLY don't have a confidence issue, so if you're so hot, I'm sure she's actually afraid to approach you. ANd you're the guy, so you definatley need to approach her first. It's like, The unwritten law.
2007-02-26 17:36:54 · answer #4 · answered by Futbol_jogabonita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not normal to feel the way you are.
Shy is normal, but wanting to kill someone. Yikes!
I think you’re frustrated because you are too shy around women. Go talk to her, ask her out, but don’t act like a nutball.
2007-02-26 17:35:26 · answer #5 · answered by dirtmojo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You feel mad becuz you to are soulmates.... A BIG CONNECTION!!!! get the nerve and tell her you like her... DONT BE SHY.. I was and oneday got the courage.... Now we been married for 3 yrs.... goodluck sweetie///
2007-02-26 17:35:35 · answer #6 · answered by thumbalinapink 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure it is.
youre just getting a little jealous.
but you should just try talking to her.. dont be so shy. shell love your confidence.
personally, i love it when a guy makes an effort to show that hes interested. it leaves a good impression :]
2007-02-26 17:37:44 · answer #7 · answered by Dani B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stick to master bates, since you lost your virginity to your palm, you will never have a girl friend.
2007-02-26 17:35:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. take it easy. If you have anger problems get some professional help. It will help you on your future relationships
2007-02-26 17:33:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes this is normal it just mean you like her DUH! You should try and talk to her. Who knows once you get to know her her she may be the most annoying person ever. Believe me just try and talk to her.
2007-02-26 17:35:55 · answer #10 · answered by Mrs. Spalla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋