my bf loves to smoke pot?

Question

ok he loves to smoke pot-- i hate it- an i have asked him to stop-- or even meet me half way like only smoking soo much a month-- but i think hes going behind my back an still doing it-- an reason i have such a problem is cuz he was high an cheated on me-- an said he remembered doin it but was soo high it was like a dream---soo i mean any suggestions on how to get him to stop-- an ive tried the whole u love me then ull stop or loose me an aint workin-- HELP I DONT WANT TO LOOSE HIM!!! AN SERIOUS ANSWERS ONLY!!

i have smoked with him before-- an i dont like weed-- an hes a different person when high like i dont exsist-- an i dont want to loose him 4 years with him an love him plus have a kid on the way!

an hes not a broke *** either-- he has a good job works good takes care of me an stuff

an were an excellent couple-- just this one hitch in our relationship we dont fight or nothing like that we get long fine! UG!!!! i love him an dont want to leave him an in not going to smoke pot!

Answer 1

Pot, unlkike alcohol, does not make you "stupid"
to the point that you can use it as an excuse.
He is lying. He just wanted a piece of a.s.s. and is using pot as an excuse.

Answer 2

Two fo my ex b-friends smoked pot. They quit only when they want to. It's obvious this guy isn't going to compromise at all. So either you face up to your own demans and leave or just keep dealing with it. Also, he cheated on you. I used to smoke pot,too. He knew what he was doing when he screwed around with that other girl.I would be mad if I were you. You don't smoke pot and it sounds like you don't cheat so get out of the realtionship while you can.There really are nice good guys out there so don't be afraid. You will hurt for a little while but a huge bruden will be lifted from you and I promise you that you will move on. Just be more careful on who you choose to date.

Answer 3

Ok thats bull honey. When I use to smoke on a daily regular basis I didnt just smoke once a day I mean all hours of the day sweet after sweet session after session. High as a bird and I still knew what I was doing. So that whole I cheated cause I was high is crap. Its just an excuse. In my opinion your better off without 'em.

Answer 4

This is tough, I was in the same kind of relationship and It only lead to more cheating and more drugs. I think the best way to stop this is to consider leaving him. He is not worth all this pain he is causing you. I really hate to see another girl go down this path. Let me tell you something, pot doesn't make u cheat. Pot is a drug that mellows you out and makes you happy and lazy. I think he was lien to you about this. If your going to let your man smoke pot and cheat you need to reevaluate yourself. Your worth better than this guy. I know it seems like you love him so much but after a while that will fade. You will later see how much better you are off without him. There are so many beautiful sweet hearted guys out their that are much better than this "loser". Hunny please contact me. [e-mail] I would like to tell you my story and how it lead me into a hellish life of pain and misery.

Answer 5

that's funny i was in the same situation, it's very disappointing to know that something that grows from the ground and can be smoked is more important than you. That's one of the several reasons I'm no longer in a relationship. Yeah, i used to smoke pot actually but i quit 3 years ago, however my ex didn't, it causes nothing but problems. and really nulls a chance at a good healthy relationship.

Answer 6

guys or gals, men or women, boys or girls who smoke pot are looking for the no way out syndrome cause thc, tetrohydrochanebole is the active ingredient that makes marijuana dope, and anyone who smokes it just to smoke it and smokes it no matter how little or how much he smokes it is a dope. Oh, and if he keeps it up he will (I guarantee it) go on to stronger illicit drug use because pot is a subtle and insidious drug, insidious mean slow and gradual losses of the more important senses that you need and those senses, as they gradually dull are the reasons the cops come and take you away to jail where all else fails in freedom.

Answer 7

You don't want to loose him, You are going to if he continues. Tell him you are leaving him if he doesn't stop and grow up. You will never be able to have children with him cause of all the poison he has already put into his system, so why the Heck are you still with him.
He seems to Love Pot more then you, since he won't stop.

Get rid of the loser or join him...

Answer 8

first of all u can't go jump into conclusion about what he is doing behind your back. And don't keep talking about u r going to leave and if he love you he will stop cuz that is true but u got to take action leave for a few days with out him knowing and see what he do if he don't straighten up the girl u can find something bigger and better it's time to stop waisting your time

Answer 9

He cheated on you and you don't want to lose him...I think you are an idiot. You are addicted to the pot head yourself, even if you dumped him, you would find another pot head to replace him... sorry hun you are stuck with the pothead, forever and ever..It is like believing every lie because it is in the book, a real religious experience. good luck! You might aswell cave in and just consider yourself a potheads girl friend/wife..

Answer 10

Beigh high on pot is not an excuse for cheating, you still know very well what you're doing.. Your boyfriend's pot smoking is not the problem, the problem is that he cheats, and this will likely continue whether he smokes pot or not.

Answer 11

Sorry, if he's addicted and doesn't want to quit - there isn't a DAMN THING you can do. Either accept that this is how it's going to be for as long as you're with him - or cut him loose, and look for a guy who matches your standards more closely. He's not the last fish in the sea.