My sis has a crush on this guy. She has liked him since church camp, and he has also liked her since church camp. During the summer, he went back to FL for a little while, and then he came back to WV. After he came back, it seemed like they started all over w/ being shy. Lately, they have been talking & flirting a lot more than the used to (they are coming out of being shy). They always smile real big when talking to each other, and you can tell they like each other. They only see each other at church. He still hasn't "asked her out" or anything, but I think it's getting closer. She does want to be his gf, but she gives up on it ever happening. She says, "It'll never happen." Any advice??
2007-02-26 09:20:49 · 12 answers · asked by Faith P 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
About the ages; they are both 17 and they both are going to turn 18 in August. And she is my lil sis...
2007-02-28 08:55:21 · update #1
hook 'em up yourself!
2007-02-26 09:23:34 · answer #1 · answered by Pirahã 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I would talk 2 the guy privately and find out how he feels, then tell him how my sis feels. If the feedback is positive, I'll tell him 2 go for it, if not, don't tell ur sis. It'll only crush her. She'll realise by herself some time, or just get over him if he never asks. And um, I would eliminate the whole church context.
2007-03-06 16:34:57 · answer #2 · answered by damselville 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to tell him how she feels. He may be too shy to come out and ask her with fear that she may say no. I don't reccoment this but if you like you can be the middle man and just set them up and get the ball rolling and let them handle it from there. Another bit of advise is not to get too involved I'm the oldest out of 3 boys and although I like to step in and be the big brother ou can't do everthing for your sis somethings she has to learn and try on her own. Good looking out sis.
2007-02-26 17:27:05 · answer #3 · answered by ltwatkins77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Faith. I dont know how old all the parties involved here are so I will asume they are all over 18. Invite them both over for dinner. Bring yourself a date as well. Dont tell anyone. Just do it. Good luck!
2007-02-28 14:11:54 · answer #4 · answered by Surrendered 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave them be!!!!! I know you want to help, but this sounds like young adolescent romance, and it goes all over the place. You don't want to force them into anything. The guy just might like likeing her. The feeling. You could tell her to not give up hope, but don't be like, "He's going too ask you out. I promise". Your probably dieing, knowing that they should be together. But they are younger than you and don't know anybetter........well.......it sounds as if their younger than you. Hope I'm right. If I'm not, just tell your sis to not lose hope. "Hope" I could help!
2007-02-26 17:28:06 · answer #5 · answered by XD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let nature take its course. Or have her be proactive and tell him her feelings. Alot of guys might be nieve about womans feelings towards them. So just let him know. The worst that could happen is that he just wants to remain friends, and there is nothing wrong with that.
2007-03-06 17:16:33 · answer #6 · answered by Reese G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him time he will come around or she can just ask him over to the house for pizza and a movie.
2007-02-26 17:24:18 · answer #7 · answered by Atropabelladonna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to invite him over for dinner and to watch a video. That should break the ice.
2007-02-26 17:28:10 · answer #8 · answered by beebee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should get them together it sounds like they like each other alot and if they are going to be shy about it you should help them out a little bit
2007-03-06 13:46:31 · answer #9 · answered by *sexycheerleader64* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play match maker and talk to him about her and let him know to ask her out if he wants to get any where with her
2007-02-26 17:25:05 · answer #10 · answered by sexypanty07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friggin church people!
yeah.. do the matchmaking for them like the other guy just said.
2007-02-26 17:24:35 · answer #11 · answered by Pedro Sanchez 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋