I was thinking of taking basket of veg's and friuts, or a pasta gift basket for his mom,and dad, and a jump rope for his 12 year old sister, and a soccer for his 8 year old brother, it's the first time meeting them, so what do you think.Should I or should I not.
2007-02-26 09:20:08 · 12 answers · asked by kitty 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
The best thing you can do is to just be yourself. I truly think gifts are a little much...
2007-03-06 06:32:31 · answer #1 · answered by Krtyr 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That seems a little much. You seem a little over eager. Relax. Keep it simple. The basket of fruits/ veggies or pasta gift basket would be plenty. You can get his siblings gifts at Christmas. Just stick with something the whole family can enjoy for now. Candles, soaps, a house plant are other options as they speak of the family's hospitality.
Hope all goes well.
2007-02-26 09:30:59 · answer #2 · answered by genepool 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
a nice gift basket is good, that way you've got the kids covered as well.. talk to the bf.. find out what kind of coffee the like, maybe a bag, and a bag of the special hot chocolate mix for kids . those dipped coffee spoons are cool.. you're under 25 bucks and you're not going overboard.
the info on the clothes is good too.. My son brought home a GF.. belly was showing.. and the only thing I noticed about her the entire night was the belly ring.......lol
5 mins after they left I couldn't have told you her name.
the one he married came over in a pair of jeans and a polo (pool party, when she changed into her suit, she had a belly ring too, but it was ok.. it wasn't the first thing I saw. I had seen a nice girl that had helped with the food, played with the nieces and nephews, made a killer salad, and seemed to genuinely care about my son. The wedding was 3 years ago. her "new" ..I bought her a diamond belly ring ...LOL ..... family joke.
2007-03-04 23:31:30 · answer #3 · answered by larsgirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Angel made a great point. Take a nice fruit basket, but nix the gift for the kids, because they will exspect something everytime you visit. Wear something nice, but not revealing, don't forget your manners, use eye contact when you talk to the parents and while they are speaking to you. Firm hand shake and try to calm your nerves. This is a time they are looking to see the least thing about you and what you are made of, face it, you are with their son.Good luck and have a nice time.
2007-03-05 19:01:54 · answer #4 · answered by Go GO Ressa 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gifts are always a good idea, but timing is everything. It would probably be more impressive to them to get something from you the second time you see them. That will differentiate you from someone just being polite. It would give you a chance to talk to them and find out more about their hobbies and what they enjoy. For them it means you listened to them and were thoughtful enough to act on it.
My advice, go with something small on the first visit and then follow up with personalized presents. Nothing too expensive, just thoughtful.
It sounds like gift-giving is very important way for you to show affection, so don't be discouraged from doing it. Just remember that the thought/effort will trump money any day.
2007-02-26 09:39:08 · answer #5 · answered by Jon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A agree with GenePool. The fruit basket sounds very nice, but I'd hold on the presents for the younger siblings. Be sure to pay attention to the younger siblings though. They'll love it. Be relaxed, and you'll have fun!
2007-02-26 09:38:16 · answer #6 · answered by Liza 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok, do not placed on heavy makeup as in case you will the club with your friends. while you're suitable all organic, that makes mothers experience good because of the fact they comprehend what their grand toddlers would look as though in case you reside together with her son. do not placed on tight clothing or maybe short shorts, in basic terms save it very conservative. in case you are able to make a journey to J. group or Abercrombie & Fitch and get something that covers up....stay removed from invariably 21. Dad will such as you in case you smile alot and save it super straight forward. Oh, and while you're staying the weekend at their abode, attempt to not permit him sneak into your room at night, they are going to anticipate that and it ought to deliver the incorrect impression.
2016-10-16 13:28:08 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take the basket of veggies and frutis. The rest is overkill. Dont try so hard.
2007-02-26 09:40:31 · answer #8 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
mabey a gift basket for the mom fruits and such thats it you dont want to seem like u r buying them, any way dont wear anything high, tight, short =, lowcut, or low riders. decent clothing casual but nice
2007-02-26 09:27:52 · answer #9 · answered by angelswife 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should take any gifts. Just be yourself, don't be afraid to join in the conversation like you've known them all your life. Show that you have confidence in yourself and they will love you.Ps.Don't forget your manners!
2007-03-03 10:17:49 · answer #10 · answered by pr jazz squirm 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋