My whole life, the first moment I meet a man, I immediatelly know if I am either very attracted to him (which is mostly strong physical attraction), or NOT AT ALL. It is NOTHING in between. Because of that, I was attracted and had relationships with wrong men either with fatal flaws or with whom I was incompatible. I also met in my life VERY decent,loving, intelligent, educated and theoretically compatible men BUT physical attraction towards them was zero. Few times, I tried very strongly to develop an attraction towards them repeating to myself all the great things in their characters, I gave it time and I was very persistant. But it NEVER WORKED. No, I am NOT attracted to just "bad boys", not at all. I am attracted to photo-model type of guys, and some of them are not the best, but I'm hypnotized by their physical beauty.
Is it possible FOR ME to develop an attraction and love to a man whom I consider great if a physical attraction is NOT THERE at the first place? What should I do?
2007-02-26 09:16:04 · 3 answers · asked by missmiami 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YOu can't force attraction. If it's not there, it's not there.
2007-02-26 09:21:50 · answer #1 · answered by Vexer D 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes if a guy is not attractive upon initial meeting and you get to know him and love his qualities, over time, you might think that guy is Adonis someday. It does happen, but over time.
2007-02-26 17:22:17 · answer #2 · answered by mlock123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up. fairytales are only in books...and a model type guy will just break your heart anyway. Find a man, be his friend and let nature take it's course.
2007-02-26 17:21:12 · answer #3 · answered by mikey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋