i am going to start hanging out alone with this guy and i know i will get physical with him what should i do. my heart says i shouldnt go with him and my mind says yeah go for it.
2007-02-26 09:05:53 · 13 answers · asked by brookiebrooke 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
alright so part of my heart says go for it as well but i know in my heart that i shouldn't. what should i do i mean seriously, i dont want to go and hang out with him just hold hands maybe kiss and then let the boundaries move farther, and then again i like him as a friend too, and also we would be in an old trailer that his parents used to live in in the trailer park and we would be all alone.
2007-02-26 09:12:51 · update #1
It isn't your mind that is telling you to go for it. We all have to learn to control the urges. Otherwise, at least be sure to bring protection because he probably won't.
2007-02-26 09:10:22 · answer #1 · answered by Love Shepherd 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think in your heart you know it is wrong. What you should do realize that God has a special purpose for you and you need to fulfill that purpose. Don't do anything that will make you ineligible to receive the full blessings of God. Make sure that you do not go anywhere with him where you two will be alone. If it becomes a real problem, then you may have to break up with him.
I get the sense that you are still young. You have plenty of time ahead of you for that kind of relationship. For now, don't do anything that you feel within your heart is wrong. You know that pushing those boundaries is wrong.
You will one day be grateful that you chose to maintain your chastity for the one special person you choose to marry. Hopefully he will do the same for you. Remember, God loves you and He will guide you if you allow him to.
2007-02-26 17:45:51 · answer #2 · answered by rbarc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to please God? Do you want to stay away from sexual immorality? Do you want to guard yourself from pregnancy out of wed lock, STDs, etc.? If so, the best thing to do is not to put yourself into compromising positions. The word of God tells us to flee youthful lusts. - (2Timothy 2:22) Basically, it would probably tempt you more if you are alone with this guy. Thus, you may want to flee that situation and just hang out in public. Trust me, as a Christian, I've been in those types of situations plenty of times. Another thing that can help is if you all pray and read the bible together. Also, find some mutually fun things to do together (i.e. movies, games, etc.). I pray that this helps you. God bless you in Jesus' name.
P.S. Condoms are not 100% safe. They can and will break....take it from me. The best thing to do is to flee. Pray for strength and take the advice above.
2007-02-26 17:15:23 · answer #3 · answered by C.O.G. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really don't trust yourself....get a chaparone. It's hard when you care for someone. But doing the right thing is better in the long run even if it hurts. Find a prayer partner too that will keep you accountable.
Bless you my sister.
2007-02-26 17:15:45 · answer #4 · answered by Jan P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A proper alignment is for the mind to control the body, and the mind of YHVH to guide the mind of man. If you get it backwards, you will live to regret it. When you play the fool, you get fooled, and when you deny the Lordship of the Savior, you tell Him you don't want His blessings.
2007-02-26 17:10:42 · answer #5 · answered by hasse_john 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hormones are great. I remember when I was young enough to have them. I say have fun, just be safe and don't do things that you will regret.
2007-02-26 17:27:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your heart is just a muscle with a few valves. It it the mind that counts.
2007-02-26 17:12:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your heart is telling you the right way to go,( Holy Spirit) but your mind(Demons) is telling you the way to go that will lead to sin.
2007-02-26 17:13:24 · answer #8 · answered by Connie M 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
just take your time dear. Your heart's telling you not to rush into things.
2007-02-26 17:19:04 · answer #9 · answered by Julian 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use a condom. Getting pregnant is far easier than you probably think it is.
Take it slow as you seem to be uneasy about it.
2007-02-26 17:11:29 · answer #10 · answered by Phoenix, Wise Guru 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋