when u r at the 'seeing' stage with a guy wot r the signs that it is purely sexual for him? are there ways of telling if things will develop into something more meaningful- without actually asking them? especially during the first 2-3 months.
2007-02-26 08:53:18 · 11 answers · asked by carly-jayne r 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you dont know ! but there are things you can do to ensure it turns into a relation ship .
1 not being needy and getting stroppy if he goes out with mates
2 showing him how caring you are
3 not always having sex
dont pretend to be something your not but dont stress about it , live life for that moment , he might turn out to be a real control freak as some do if they think they have you within your spell , trick is to treat him as he treats you and play hard to get sometimes especially if he does ..
2007-02-26 09:01:46 · answer #1 · answered by j.j. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does he only call u when he wants 2 hook up, or does he ever call just 2 talk, 4 the hell of it? do u spend non-sexual time 2gether? is he constantly pawin u? does he treat u with respect? does he take u places, want 2 b seen in public with u? it's best 2 have more than just sex in common...purely sexual relationships can develop in2 somethin more meaningful, but it's rare...if u want it 2 b more meaningful, u probably need 2 have a talk with the guy and let him know how u feel...like, yea, sex with u is great, but let's go here, do this, get 2 know each other some more...the sex will b even better if u really dig each other...
2007-02-26 09:04:06 · answer #2 · answered by Aurora Blue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he only calls you to hook up or something most likely he's just into sex. There are things tha a man does to show that he cares outside of just trying to get into you pants. If you have been together 2-3 months and he has doing nothing to make you feel differently then you already have your answer. You don't have to ask him anytihng let his actions show you how much he cares. If you do find that he has nothing else on his mind you should leave because he's only in love with the fact that he can get into your pants. Goodluck with that.
2007-02-26 09:03:48 · answer #3 · answered by ltwatkins77 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only time will tell. If he wants sex you tell him that you're
not ready yet. If he puts pressure - then its purely sex.
Has youhad to ask the question it means that you do
not know each otherverymuch - so unless you want to
satisfy your own sexual desire, wait until you are ready.
Then it will become meaningful for you.
2007-02-26 09:03:21 · answer #4 · answered by Minxy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does he only phone you late at night? If out in a night club does he blantly ignore you til nearer the closing hours? Does he turn up when hes bored???? if you answered yes to any of these he only wants one thing. If you ignore him for a while his true colours should appear
2007-02-26 09:00:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if everytime you get with him and you guy have sex and you
dont hear from him in two or three weeks and you meat up
again and you have sex and its the same pattern for over two
years then he is using u. if you hear no talk about the ring, kids,
a future with u, his family, no interest in yours but its just
sex, sex, sex, then he is using u.
2007-02-26 14:06:02 · answer #6 · answered by cheyanne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he isn't bothered about romance, meals in and out, cinema, holding hands etc then it's probably just sex, if all a fella wants is spend time in the bedroom...well he's using you
2007-02-26 08:59:50 · answer #7 · answered by zeldieuk2002 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he only comes round an wants sex then its just a sex thing
2007-02-26 09:27:23 · answer #8 · answered by lianbiss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look in his eye's they tell you everything,trust your instincts,does his eye's glaze over when you talk about your life and ask him questions on stuff you have told him,if he rem stuff then he wants you mind and body.
Otherwise shag him and move on.
2007-02-26 09:03:46 · answer #9 · answered by live life 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have got a hunch that its purely sexual already, then it probably is
2007-02-26 09:27:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋