Here's the deal. My girlfriend of a yr just broke up with me yesterday, after we had an argument (we had been experiencing different problems each not in our relationship). I was devastated, and she said could we meet the next day, so that she could 'explain', I said that there wasn't much point, as it wouldn't help either of us, she didn't want to be with me anymore. I said that I loved her, and that if she did want to take me back, I would be waiting for her at the place she said she wanted to meet me to explain. If she didn't turn up, I would assume that she didn't want to get back together and work through these problems together.
She didn't turn up. I go to get a bus home, she's standing there with two of her friends who are comforting her. We both get on the bus, she sits in the seat furthest away...i midway through the journey go up and say can't we just sort all this out....she says that she wanted to explain, but i said 'whats the point'?, then she started crying & told me2go
2007-02-26 08:52:54 · 6 answers · asked by La Souffle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why don't you just let her explain and listen to her
2007-02-26 08:57:22 · answer #1 · answered by T Time 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is obvious that she still cares for you. You need to let her explain why she did what she did. It maybe because of her family not wanting to see her date yet or something of that sort. You probably already messed up by saying "whats the point" after her telling you to let her explain. Go to her tomorrow and tell her that you want to know why you two broke up. You may get an answer, you may not (especially after how you treated her). Be sincere about it. She may still want to be with you, but she may have a lot on her plate to where she is finding it hard to get things done. You said that you both were experiencing problems and they didn't have anything to do with your relationship. Maybe it is one of those problems that could be conflcting with both of your relationship. Let her explain, then you may understand what is going through her mind.
2007-02-26 17:11:32 · answer #2 · answered by traveling_soldier6784 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wooh diz girl gots sum problems...
but you did kinda blow her off.. she is sentitive now and don't know if she done the right thing (in my point of view) so she wanted to explain to you what was going on in her head and why she done what she done. i strongly think that if you talked to her you would be back toghter because every girl wants to be listened to cuz ... im assuming that she loved you and it's hard to leave a person that you love without a long conversation about the whole thing
i guess u an't into that
i suggest u go up to her apoligise and
tell her to say what she wanted to say all this time :D
2007-02-26 17:00:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have had this same problem and im a girl i know how she is feeling. u should have let her explain and most likely since she was crying she still luvs u. i cant really tell u anymore advice cus im about 2 start cryin just hearing other ppls stories brings back memories of me and my bf when we broke up even though im back together wit him it kills me 2 remember how me and him ended.
2007-02-26 17:07:08 · answer #4 · answered by emochick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her xplani and then see what happens give her a chance...if u luv her u would have listened and not have said whats the point
2007-02-26 16:58:41 · answer #5 · answered by elona 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably had somethin' goin' on, or needed time to explain.... if she was crying, then she probably still loves you, dude....
2007-02-26 16:57:41 · answer #6 · answered by Chickadee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋