i have liked this guy for the whole school yr but i have been too shy and nervous to tell him. HE is so funny and smart and sweet and is everything i look for in a guy. THe only problem is that he has a girlfriend. we talk all the time and he is super cute and we get along well. It just kills me that he is taken. i hate looking at him everyday and knowing that if i had been a little quicker he would know how i feel. what i want to know is if i should tell him that i like him or would that cause too much drama?....he isn' the guy to have short relationships. His last lasted for over a year!..I don't know if i can go that long without letting him know something. Am i just impatient or what?....Plz help!...Thanks!
2007-02-26 08:47:25 · 10 answers · asked by edtkkfif 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldn't, you will look pretty desperate. Keep it to yourself. Then again, you never know what the future holds.
Telling him could ruin the relationship that you all have.
2007-02-26 08:52:00 · answer #1 · answered by Ms Brown Eyez 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How long have you known him? The stronger your relationship is the more it affects your decision. If you have a good friendship that would be damaged or ruined by telling him then don't. If you aren't close to him then you can either take the chance and let him know or you can try to be friends with him. You could even do both. Since he has a girlfriend you should be careful of how you let him know if that's what you choose to do. I have had the same problem before. The girl I liked was always in a relationship and one time I asked her out not knowing she was taken. We were forming a friendship and did not let that get in the way. A couple years later she was single again and I took my chance. Now she is my fiance. The best I can really give you is to follw your heart, it knows best. Don't ruin a relationship, but don't ruin yourself either.
2007-02-26 09:01:51 · answer #2 · answered by crazybacker36 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND-HE IS OFF LIMITS...PERIOD !!! You say "the only problem is he has a girlfriend" like you are the catch of the day? Find you some one to be with and stop trying to mess his stuff up. What is wrong with you? You sound like the type that tries to break people up because You want what You want. That's not how it works. If you are not that kind of person, prove it and find someone single to mingle with OK? :)
2007-02-26 08:56:48 · answer #3 · answered by Ms Kamm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel u. I am going through the same problem!He has a girl friend and I just cant stand that.We also talk.Dont worry you arnt being pushy or anything when the time is right everything will fall into place
2007-02-26 08:54:37 · answer #4 · answered by TomBoy 360 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok this really hard but he is in a relationship so i think the best thing for you to do is to talk to him. be lik okay i understand you have a girl friend and i just wanted to tell you my feelings towards you. tell him that you arnt expecting him to break up with her but you just want to get it off your chest and see where it takes you from there. he could stay with the girl he is or realize that he likes you too and break up with her but dont get your hopes up if it dosnt work out. good luck and if he liks his gf alot and wants to be with her you have to be able to respect that. wish you the best
2007-02-26 08:59:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell him, but do stay close to him.
Relationships are sometimes doomed, which means he could be single soon... then you can tell him.
But, yeah, I think it'd be unfair to tell him that you like him right now, and it may make him uncomfortable around you just because of his girlfriend... So stay close and just be his friend for now.
2007-02-26 08:52:34 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ Cliff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say to him i used to really fancy you and see what he says and if its good then just tell him that you still do good luck in what eva u decide to do
2007-02-26 08:53:21 · answer #7 · answered by lilshortyjess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont like his girlfriend, just tell him how you feel about him and hope he likes you more. Otherwise just wait and hope it doesnt work out between them.
2007-02-26 08:51:28 · answer #8 · answered by Scott 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
be brave and just ask him if he like you or tell him that you like him.
you never know what the outcome will be if you never try hun.
2007-02-26 08:51:01 · answer #9 · answered by sexy_chic 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him how u feel
2007-02-26 08:51:52 · answer #10 · answered by pain&pleasure 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋