Okay so my gf calls me one day and says that shes going to a guys bd party and that shed call me when she got home. Around 8:30 she calls me and asks what I think cheating is I tell her I dont know and ask why. She tells me that at the party she was sitting on a bed with a guy and they cuddled while watching a movie she says shes really sorry and that they didnt do anything else and that she doesnt like him. I dont know If I believe that nothing else happened even though she promised that nothing did im supposed to call her today and tell her what I thing( when she called me last night I told her that I needed to think and that id call her later) What would you do if this happened to you with your gf/bf? And do you believe her that nothing else happened?
2007-02-26 08:35:50 · 18 answers · asked by Cool_Guy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i would believe her. She obviosuly feels guilty that she cuddled this guy and in my eyes, this means that she must really like you, or else she wouldn't make a big deal out of it. She probably didn't want you to hear it as gossip as well so was saving your feelings. If I were you I would believe her. Good luck!
2007-02-26 08:40:01 · answer #1 · answered by wizzy-doll 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd be upset. Intentions or not, she still cuddled with some other dude. That's something reserved for boyfriends and girlfriends. There's a line, and I personally think she crossed it. Think about it this way, dude. Would she have cuddled with this dude if you were in the room? Hell no she wouldn't have ... so she obviously knows it's not cool. Maybe she's testing you. I have no idea. But you have to tell her, not in an angry way, but in an understanding way that you didn't think that was alright and that you wouldn't do that to her and how it made you feel (hopefully not very good). Then just reaffirm your feelings for her and tell her you were glad she told you about it. See what happens.
2007-02-26 16:41:40 · answer #2 · answered by bitchlips411 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that she did more than cuddle. If she had a guilty conscience just from that... then i don't think she could keep any thing else from you. Now.. if my bf did this to me... i would definitely not trust them as much as i did before.. i would also ask why they did that.. maybe they really aren't so into the relationship... i believe that you two can get over this if you both really want it... but make sure that she isn't gonna do this to you again... remember.. people make mistakes..."Fool me once, shame on you, Fool me twice, shame on me"~Britt
2007-02-26 16:42:48 · answer #3 · answered by Bugg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i'm not the jealous type. if my girlfriend was doing something like that and told me, i would understand. i mean if she told you instead of covering it up, she's a keeper, esp if she told you what happened and what didn't happen. if she tells you nothing happened, i'd definitely believe her, give her the benefit of the doubt. innocent until proven guilty, right? and you already know she feels guilty already since she told you they cuddled, but nothing else happened. and she doesn't like him, so it never meant anything in the first place, but she was really worried about how you felt, and that says something about her genuine character.
2007-02-26 16:41:06 · answer #4 · answered by Chris C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Question: If she didn't like the guy, then why is she cuddled up with him watching a movie? Second, if you are not sure of her. Then it's time to say, "Bye Bye." It may hurt but, it could save the aggravation later on.
2007-02-26 16:41:52 · answer #5 · answered by is4031_us 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay dude from a girls point of view she is being tottally bogus if that were you she would be flipping out, cussing out, the works but when she does it you are expected just to forgive her NOWAY! Don't beleive her!! There is no reason to stay with a girl who is going to just cuddle with some other guy.
2007-02-26 16:50:01 · answer #6 · answered by Tessa N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd dump em it's not worth it right now it might be cuddling but others thing happen while cuddling and it not right. i'd let her go. you can find someone better. there are girls out there who wouldn't do that. and unless someone saw them just cuddling then fine but it was just the two of them how do you know all that happened was cuddling. but you know at least she was honested about that
2007-02-26 16:41:49 · answer #7 · answered by kryptonitegirl2007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her nowwwwwwww!!!!! The whole thing will play in your head. Cuddle my ***!! Can you ever really trust her. Just cut your losses. Plus if you can hook up with one of her friends. But not before you break up.
2007-02-26 16:42:15 · answer #8 · answered by jrgonz454 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah cause she told you so, if she did not tell you what happened you would have found out from anoher source. So believe her, but that doesnt mean she still has to be your girlfriend.
2007-02-26 16:40:17 · answer #9 · answered by Kawainani 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, straight up, I think this chick is getting some a ss while ur sitting here on yahoo answers. I think this chick is bad news
2007-02-26 16:42:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋