I have decided to break up with my boyfriend, but everytime I go up to him I can't. My friends have told me to do it and Im ready i just can't.
2007-02-26 08:27:55 · 12 answers · asked by slow_dancing_in_the_rain 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be strong.
You can do this!
There is a reason you don't want to be with him anymore right?
It's like a band aid..you have to do it fast and get it over with.
Good wishes to you
2007-02-26 08:36:27 · answer #1 · answered by Barb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell yourself and/or him that it isn't fair to the other person to stay in a relationship with someone you dont want to be with! If you stay in the relationship both of you will become unhappy and then whats the point of being together? Aren't u suppose to make each other happy?
You dont need a specific reason as to why you dont like him anymore just the simple fact that you dont want to be with him. If you wanna be promiscious for a while tell him your not ready for a serious relationship.......................
ya know what just be freakin HONEST.... not enough people are these days.
2007-02-26 16:36:01 · answer #2 · answered by melissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Funny that I saw this question. I just possed a question about when should you start dating after a break up. Well the answer to your question is do it NOW or real soon. Dont prolong the pain It will take longer to heel. Good Luck!
2007-02-26 16:40:24 · answer #3 · answered by J.R. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a note that explains it then stick around him if you can't taalk to him about it, but notes generaly seem to get people more upset than talking to people about y...
edit: and follow what araura says, I had the same thing happen to me. thought everything was goin ok but then I caught on & she didnt break up w/ me for like 3 days after I caught on, and i was pretty hurt, and definately stressed for the entire time before she broke up with me. definately don't go out with another guy really soon after u break up with him either, it hurts like hell.
2007-02-26 16:34:13 · answer #4 · answered by new b-boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you have realised that going up to him to break it up is not working, you have to try a new tactic.
If you are ready to move on then all you have to do is block him from sending you emails or change your emails address.
Block his number from your phone or change your phone number.
If he comes to your house then you have to MAKE UP YOUR MIND AND NOT LET HIM INTO THE HOUSE.
You know what will happen if you let him in.
Bury yourself in your work and shake off every thought of him that comes to your thoughts, keep it up for three months and you are rid of him.
HOORAY!!!! FREEDOM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-26 16:44:45 · answer #5 · answered by Pink_Zirconia!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awwwwwww...start out by discussin how u feel with him...this is 1 of those thangs that hurts more the longer u put it off...ur obviously worried about hurtin him, but pretendin will hurt him even more than if u just tell him the truth...poor guy thinks everythin's ok, probably has no clue ur gonna dump him...yea, it hurts, but do both of u a favor and get it over with so u can both move on...
2007-02-26 16:33:43 · answer #6 · answered by Aurora Blue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u try to and cant than have someone tell him that u need to talk to him alone than when u 2 r alone tell him that u dont want to see him again.
2007-02-26 16:32:12 · answer #7 · answered by deathroe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for starters your relationship has nothing to do with your friends so dont listen to them, the longer you leave it the harder it will be, get some balls and let this guy get on with his life,
2007-02-26 16:33:15 · answer #8 · answered by bigsteve 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do it
if he is making you miserable, tell him that
tell him ur TRUE feelings
u better do it now or else he might want to get more serious and if you tell him later he might crack
follow ur heart
2007-02-26 16:31:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get him alone and tell him why you dont want to be with him any more be gentle and let him down easy.
2007-02-26 16:33:34 · answer #10 · answered by sayj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋