the pleasure that he seeks? I don't want to have traditional sex yet, but we've been together for a bit and I'd like to make him happy. I feel like I have some sort of block in my mind and can't let myself go.
2007-02-26 08:04:39 · 9 answers · asked by confused (again) 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why not buy the Kama Sutra? It's really great to have in case you're have a block. Good Luck
2007-02-26 08:08:55 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The block in your mind that's not allowing you to let yourself go is a little thing called "morals", and congratulations on having them! Don't give in just because you feel obligated, pressured or left out of the crowd because "everyone else" is doing it. Stick by your guns and if he feels you're letting him down, then he's more into the physical side of a relationship and not into "you", especially if you've only been together for "a bit".
Sorry in advance to all those who feel they're going to have to slam me for being old fashioned and out of touch with today's youth, but sex is NOT a prerequisite for a relationship to last longer than a month or two!
2007-02-26 16:17:41 · answer #2 · answered by dragonwing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am afraid that you will have to be a lot more open and clear about what you really want, before I can offer any tangible advice on this subject.
And it just might be a good idea to write directly to me on my email address : maxalikhan@yahoo.com .
2007-02-26 17:17:51 · answer #3 · answered by fun2Bwith 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He'll appreciate the thoughtfulness very much (trust me on that one)!
As far as the mental block, just put it out of your head one time and allow your sincere desire to please your boyfriend takeover. Once you see how much enjoyment he gets out of it, I doubt the mental block will ever again be an issue.
If you need practical tips: it's best just to ask him and let him show you the way.
2007-02-26 16:13:18 · answer #4 · answered by Leroy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
your obviously not ready to do anything like that yet, the closer you get the more comfortable you will feel with doing it, jus be patient and enjoy the time you spend with each other things will work them selves out you`ll see!
2007-02-26 16:10:56 · answer #5 · answered by bigsteve 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is GOOD - kiss and lick him on the ears - slow and sedcutively :) Oooh and make some noises while you're at it too!
2007-02-26 16:08:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, head would be just fine:)
2007-02-26 16:09:54 · answer #7 · answered by ddreaddsjr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make him a hugh cake
2007-02-26 16:09:51 · answer #8 · answered by johnc 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask him, or just give him a *******. (Head)
2007-02-26 16:09:16 · answer #9 · answered by Track Star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋