Also I'd like to know when I introduce myself what are the things I should do and not do?
2007-02-26 08:04:00 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I like i guy who dosn't seem like he just wants sex. Like if a guy can look you in the eye and talk about anything they are interested in, and not look at your chest all the time theen that is attractive to me
2007-02-26 08:07:16 · answer #1 · answered by lovebug512 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think good hygiene is important. I find it attractive when a man is clean shaven, hair combed, clean teeth, clean clothes. Guys who wear babby pants and sloppy shirts look unattractive to me.
When you introduce yourself always smile, look her right in the eyes, offer your hand for shaking, then if it's a girl you want to date you could also kiss the back of her hand and tell her how happy you are to meet her. If it seems like the wrong time or place to kiss the back of her hand (like a work or professional setting) then don't do that.
Added after posting: Actually I know exactly what I want and already have him so you can't stereotype all the girls who answer questions here as not knowing what they want. I just answer these questions for the fun of it and also hopefully to help other people.
2007-02-26 08:09:57 · answer #2 · answered by StrawberryShortcake 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let me start by saying that I've seen some guys who were very attractive but the minute they opened their mouths, they were suddenly nothing. And then I've met other guys who at first were not much to look at but as I got to know them, they became very attractive. It's more about personality for me. But to make a good first impression, try to always be clean and smell clean (but PLEASE don't wear a gallon of cologne). Next, have a nice smile ready and be polite. I hate it when guys make nasty comments to me or about other people. Find something casual to talk about with the girl you are meeting. Here's a big clue - people tend to like people who like them. If you are interested in what she is reading, doing or other things about her, she will be more likely to be interested in you. If she's not, let it go. As for what not to do, no staring, no picking (anything unless it's a flower) and no lying or trying to make yourself sound really like you are the best he-man she'lls ever meet (like telling her you're an astronaut when you're an accountant). Be yourself - on good behavior. Good luck.
2007-02-26 08:11:49 · answer #3 · answered by sandy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I find a guy attractive when he is understanding and likes what I have to say. If he is a attentive listener that is a major plus for me. I will realize it when he has a lot to say on my comments. Then, I know he is interested in my feelings and respects me. Don't focus on how beautiful a girl is. That is a major turnoff for me. I feel like a dog is examining me or something. Make a lot of eye contact with a girl as well. Don't direct your attention elsewhere as she can think that she is boring you. When you introduce yourself, try to act sophisticated like you are not just introducing yourself for wanting her or flirting with her. Make her feel comfortable by offering her a drink or coffee.
2007-02-26 08:14:41 · answer #4 · answered by brighid 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
Personally, I find a man's smile and eyes most attractive right off the bat. Also, as silly as this sounds, if he has bad hygiene, forget it! I also like a confident man, that is not conceited or "full of himself." Someone who is sweet, and doesn't try to play me. Honesty is a must!
Also, don't act too needy. That will scare most women off. Don't pursue her too much. When introducing yourself, just say "hi, how are you doing?" And take it from there. Don't push yourself on her.
Oh, and for me, good cologne is always a plus!!! And I like when a man gives me a flower, or flowers. They don't have to be expensive, it's the thought that counts with me.
Good luck!
2007-02-26 08:11:39 · answer #5 · answered by MARIA_794 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all the guy has to be cute with a big booty made of steel and a sexy body. It dont matter if you think you cute us the ladies gotta think you cute. You also gotta be respectful to gurls. You cant get no gurl with a bad attitude. And if you try to holla at a gurl and she aint feelin it just back off and give her her space.
2007-02-26 08:11:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Confidence... not arrogance, not self centered, not cocky and stuck up but CONFIDENCE!! Of course physical attraction is important but honestly, what really turns me on about a guy is when he is confident about himself. It reflects self worth and respect!! Also, the way he treats his mother. Because that is usually an indication about the way he feels about women.
2007-02-26 08:11:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i always check out a man's smile, smell, eyes, hands, and posture...when u introduce urself, be urself but make sure ur polite and show non-sexual interest FIRST (some guys come out mackin from the giddyup, and most women don't dig that)...
2007-02-26 08:14:24 · answer #8 · answered by Aurora Blue 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I look at a guys hair and his overall look like sloppy or neat ( i like a guy in between). I like it when a guy just tries to talk to you and get to know about you and tries to make you feel comftorable, not akward like " Hey" "Hi" (akward silence) lol
O yea, and if he smells like he hasnt taken a shower in 2 weeks then thats not good.
2007-02-26 08:12:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
These girls don't know what they want, if they did, they wouldn't be on "singles and dating".
Women/girls just want a guy that is.... wait a sec...... here it comes..... FUN!
It's really that simple. They want someone that they have a good time with. Everything else comes second to this. That'll be $1000 bucks for saving you years of torment.
2007-02-26 08:09:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋