"I should've left y'all nasty, filthy, dirty newborn babies where I found y'all. Y'all were so dirty that the social workers were even afraid to even touch y'all!" She told me that about me & my twin sister. It's not our fault we got taken away & our biological family neglected & abused us & the biological mother would put us in the clothes drawer, & then when we'd cry for food or to get our diaper changed, she'd shut the drawer, & she abandoned us & tried to murder us. I heard that we weren't even bathed & we had cigarette burns on us & everything. & as NEWBORN babies!
I feel so hurt to be told that & now, I'm 23 yrs. old & after Hurricane Katrina, I had to live with the foster mom again in order to finish college because there was no place else to live, & this year for Mardi Gras, I went to get the rest of my belongings from her house & she told me that same mean statement. I'm so glad that I moved on my own to Brooklyn, NY.
2007-02-26 08:02:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I really hope that you and your sister can finish college and become successful on your own. She should not of said that to you, it was her choice to become a adpotive/foster mother, not you. She did not have to take you in, she chose to. Shame on her for saying that. I hope you can move on from her, and when you have children, treat them better than she treat you! Good luck, stay strong!!
2007-02-26 08:20:39 · answer #1 · answered by buzyb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry your foster Mother said that to you!!!!!!!!! I am also so happy you were able to go to college and better yourself. Also, be happy now that you are away from her and on your own. Just think, you are a better person than her and some day you will make a great Mom!!!!!!!!!! Some people just cant be parents, and what is even more sad is some foster parents only want the money that comes with fostering kids. I would put it all behind you and move on. You will make new friends and who in turn will be better than any family that you did have.But keep your chin up and know you are a wonderful person, you are going to make it just fine and you did it on your own!!!!!!!! Be happy and smile, hold your head up tall and proud!!!!!!!!! Remember, you are a better person, and also strong! Good Luck and hang in there!
2007-02-26 08:38:13 · answer #2 · answered by helen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am incredibly sorry you were subjected to that statement. Frankly I'm at a loss of words because of how heartless and empty those words are.
Here's my only advice to you: you're 23 now and you've made it this far, don't let words like those upset you; persevere! Go out there, continue your path of education and growth and just know that though you may have been hurt by her words, you're the one now making a life for yourself and in doing so, are showing her how much strength you truly have. Harboring ill feelings over what she said (even if it's justified) will only hold you back, even if you don't realize it. You were put on this earth for a reason, her words were nothing but a reality check to reaffirm who and what you are... you are a person, a survivor.
I wish you all the best!
2007-02-26 08:13:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her your sorry to hear that she is such a piece of @#&!. Then slowly put your hands around her neck and choke the living hell out of her. That is such a terrible thing for someone to tell anyone. She will get what she deserves in the future because Karma always wins.
2007-02-26 08:14:08 · answer #4 · answered by steve h 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is very sad , that women is mean and should of never beable to keep any childrens. It is wrong for her to tell you ugly things. Maybe, she hate to see you go and is being mean about it. Anyway, you can't help what other do. You just live your life the best you can and try to forget her hateful words.
2007-02-26 08:26:19 · answer #5 · answered by SUN FLOWER 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry you had to go through that. She should not have said that to you. You are better than that.Talk to someone about it. Maybe counseling will help you deal with what you have been through. I feel that if something is bothering me I like to talk about it. Good luck!!! :)
2007-02-26 08:09:35 · answer #6 · answered by lez23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one got the right to say that kind **** to anyway i dont why people get foster kids if they not goin to care for them like they are their own dont won't bout what she said u knw u was better than what she said u r
2007-02-26 08:44:13 · answer #7 · answered by Brittany D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess i would feel really sad. Your foster mom is kind of mean no offense.
2007-02-26 08:31:43 · answer #8 · answered by Sakura 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would feel like I am rotten. Then I would remember it wasn't my choice and I am a good person
2007-02-26 08:50:12 · answer #9 · answered by BLAH BLAH BLAH! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like a *****.
2007-02-26 08:06:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋