I know it sounds stupid but it sometimes feels like my closest friends are putting me down and leaving me out...
even if it means they did something last weekend and i wasnt there
or
if there is two of them with me and i leave the room to go to the bathroom and when i come back ther in full discussion but when they see me they stop...
im probobly just being stupid.
never mind.
2007-02-26 07:57:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
there's no smoke without fire babe, you need to love many trust few and learn to paddle your own canoe
2007-02-26 08:03:05 · answer #1 · answered by Good Egg 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi
Feeling insecure does not sound like you are being silly because those are your feelings . If your friends are leaving you out and putting you down instead of them cheering you up try talking to them and explain how and why you feel the way you do . If after talking with them and they display the same actions , I would re-think the friendship .
Take care
C
2007-02-26 08:10:05 · answer #2 · answered by Constance M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the great issues i do no longer trouble approximately plenty, because of the fact for some reason, they have been fairly hassle-free for me. For me, the little issues make me insecure--the way that I walk, communicate, take a seat, press a button, stand. i assume its because of the fact i've got the prefer to make it so as that others are comfortable or I understand that at any 2nd, you may desire to be analyzed. So i do no longer communicate except called upon or mandatory to, take a seat up rapidly, stand tall, and keep a rapidly face. i've got self assurance it makes me good and conceals an id, yet on the comparable time i'm insecure. i assume i'm insecure around human beings oftentimes, even my very circle of relatives contributors.
2016-10-02 01:02:00 · answer #3 · answered by mechem 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I use to feel that way with my old bestfriends. How old are you? Since then I've learned to be my own bestfriend. What I did was I just started hanging out with other girls and people to fill up my time with and have better friendships with. Friends come and go remember that. Dont ever let them step over you or make you feel bad about yourself. They're the ones who should feel bad for calling themselves your bestfriends but treating you differently. Its not right.
2007-02-26 08:05:19 · answer #4 · answered by TheLight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah....i cant figure friends like that out neither........best thing to do is talk to them but im betting they wouldnt admit they have a problem......just try & hang out with some other people and forget them for some time..... sooner or later theyll come running back to you.......if that doesnt work then just forget about them.....trust me friends shouldnt do this and youre better off without such people.......theyll just keep putting you down and you def do NOT deserve this ......youre worth much more.......
**** em!
2007-02-26 08:05:41 · answer #5 · answered by Joanna - Harry Potter Fan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, i always feel the same way but ive realised 1 thing.there is always a ringleader.find one person in your group that you maybe dont get on with as well and confront them about it. you may feel a whole lot better and the insecure feeling will go away,trust me.i know.
2007-02-26 08:04:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't being stupid. Tell them how you feel. Life is way too short to have these insecurities among your "friends". You have nothing to lose by talking to them about it.
2007-02-28 08:12:41 · answer #7 · answered by The doctor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk them and let them know how your feeling. If they are your true friends then they won't have a problem with discussing this with you.
2007-02-26 08:02:49 · answer #8 · answered by lez23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you not being stupid, i think sometimes we all feel like that some time in our life. i do also feel as if i am the only one in the world. u r not alone. we all have our off days.
2007-02-26 08:02:50 · answer #9 · answered by popc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know I feel the same way with my friends! It like they are best friends and my friend has been best friends with me for 4 years... I don't know.
2007-02-26 08:00:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋