3 years now and i need serious therapy because were really good friends and she doesnt feel the same way about me.it is so strange as i and all of my friends think were great together.on valentines day it hurt the most,not because we were apart,because we were together.We walked about shopping, i bought her a rose and she drank my coffee and it was one of the best days ive ever had.ive fallen deep for this girl what should ido?
2007-02-26 07:57:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop being a sucker.
She doesn't love you and she never will, get over it and get a life!
2007-02-26 08:22:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has she actually told you directly that she doesn't feel the same way as you?
If she has told you, I'd back off, otherwise you may lose her totally as a friend.
If she hasn't told you she may be totally in the dark about your feelings about her, no matter how obvious they may be to other people, or she may just be toying with your emotions and likes the thought of some love sick guy chasing after her.
You need to get things straight with this girl once and for all, lay you cards on the table and tell her how you really feel, if she responds with open arms that's good, if she doesn't at least you know where you stand.
Just don't let yourself be taken for a ride, if she's not interested find yourself someone who will love you back the way you deserve to be loved!
Good luck.
2007-02-26 08:09:43 · answer #2 · answered by The Original Highbury Gal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you say she doesn't feel this way about you. is that an assumption? Because if it is then you need to check it out. no-one likes a knock back or looks for them. On the other hand I know lots of people who have never had one... all single and unattached!!
If you do know this for a fact then get over it and don't go wasting anymore Valentine day's on something you can never have, try spending them romancing someone new into your life.
Good luck
2007-02-26 08:19:53 · answer #3 · answered by hrt2hrt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know she doesn't feel the same way about you? Why was she with you valentines day and not someone else if she doesn't like you? I'm sorry to answer a question with a question but it sounds like somethings happening. Lay your cards on the table and ask her outright, if she doesn't want you you need to seriously dis-associate yourself from her to move on. If you keep hanging out with her it's just gonna drive you nuts.
2007-02-26 08:10:56 · answer #4 · answered by LMac100 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am guessing you have told her how you feel?? if you havent then that is the firast thing you should do.
if you have told her how you feel or you do and she confirms that she doesnt feel the same you need to take a step back it will probably hurt but it will make things better in the long run, give you time to meet other people and realise that she is not for you.
Stop looking for signs that she may be into you you will only torture yourself.
by the way good luck, love sucks doesnt it!
2007-03-02 06:04:52 · answer #5 · answered by smile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sugest that you move on if she doesn't feel the same way about you as you do about her. That's alll I can say.
2007-02-26 08:01:25 · answer #6 · answered by Irish Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o,k,
first i appreicate your answer to my question!
very helpfull!
em.....
i think at the mo im in the same boat as you i mean i no how you feel!!!!!!!!!
i think if you have allready told her how you feel and she doesnt feel the same way.......
we need a plan.
i have an idea...............................................
2007-02-26 08:12:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋