i know this guy, we are great freinds, but i want to be more then friends. He has this girlfriend that has no personality..she's saying ok for anything..and his keeping her for that reason, but they have been together for over a year now. I have almost given up on him but something won't let me. i need him in my life..believe me..i don't wanna be evil to that girl..but also i know im the one he wants..because he cares about me very much and jealous from any other guy trying to speak to me..
2007-02-26 06:41:58 · 10 answers · asked by sally 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that guy probably wants to get with you but won't admit it, you guys aren't best friends for no reason. I used to have a best friend that I thought was really hot and both of us really wanted each other, but we both had other girlfeinds/boyfriends and the timing was off. It's hard for guys and girls to be real friends because one person always secretly but wont' admit that they want something more.
2007-02-26 06:49:54 · answer #1 · answered by www.japanvideogames.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will be that "evil girl" if you try to break up his relationship. He has to be a big boy and decide what he wants to do. If he's so unhappy with her, why is he still with her??!!! Really, don't wait around for this guy. He might just string you along.
2007-02-26 14:46:28 · answer #2 · answered by Christabelle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like to me he has you both dangling from a string, and instead of being irritated by that situation you are hostile toward his girlfriend. You're as agreeable as she appears to be. It'll bet he shows jealousy toward other guys that like her as well. He and his girlfriend have been together for a year now, it looks like he would have left her by now if he didn't like her personality. You're both being played and it sounds like you have a bad case of it. Instead of blaming her for not being up to your standards, try communicating with the guy to determine how he feels. Good Luck
2007-02-26 14:50:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he cares bout u cuz ur close FRIENDZ doesnt necessarily mean hes in love with u he might be in love with her so just wait & see if he loves u hel leav her 4 u if he loves her give up on the idea & keep him as a good friend!
2007-02-26 14:51:50 · answer #4 · answered by Dal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry to say this, but don't go after him. he must be happy if he's witht the girl for a year. If you really liked him enough, let him be happy.
2007-02-26 14:49:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what you mean I'm on the same position but i told him what i felt and he said he felt the same way and were together maybe if you tell him how you feel about him you might end up together you might never know
2007-02-26 14:50:16 · answer #6 · answered by mayra v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel just dont tell him you need him becuse then it looks as if its like you'll die without him you dont ever NEED a guy you just want one. and if he doenst have the same feelings move on. theres no point in still likeing a guy who doesnt like you.
2007-02-26 14:49:13 · answer #7 · answered by jazzylynne1991 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait for him to break up with her before you try to hook up . in amonth ask him how he feels about you. you may be wrong about his feelings that he has for you.
2007-02-26 14:59:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should still build your relationship with him and see where it goes...dont even think of it as him being taken and do what you gotta do for you and make yourself happy
2007-02-26 14:45:51 · answer #9 · answered by dmv 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
nice name.
2007-02-26 15:01:20 · answer #10 · answered by loopy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋