ok i went on one date with this girl ,and i told her lets just be friends now she is saying she wants me in her and that she loves me and my opinon matters to her she is so clingy its so dumb yesterday she told me her friend died a year ago and she was sad i was just about to block her off my list until she said that i am hurtuing i dont want to hurt this girl but i cant take people being so clingy she acts as if i am the center of her world i hate it I am only 19 years old for crying out loud she asked me do u care about me i said yes as a friend, but yesterday i blocked her and she emaild me saying u lied u didint care about me i am hurt i did lie but u have to understand no matter what i did i would of end up hurting her and me but i feel so bad i shouldint of lied what do i do now should i call her and aplogize or just let her grive
2007-02-26 06:35:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
run away and don't look back...
2007-02-26 06:38:50 · answer #1 · answered by Cato 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say you call her and apologize. So you will feel much better. It wasn't good to lie and you will feel bad about it for a long time if you do not apologize. And while you are talking to her you should tell her that you just want to be freinds with her and nothing more. And if she cannot accept this or something it isn't your fault... then you still can just let her go and forget about her
2007-02-26 14:46:24 · answer #2 · answered by mc_fly_11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could become a stalker. End it now. It will hurt her a lot less if you end it now rather than string her along. Just Email her and say you don't want to hurt her but you are interested in someone else. Sorry and good-bye. Don't accept any emails or phone calls. She could be a mental case.
2007-02-26 14:40:21 · answer #3 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is grieving and she lost someone close to her and has a void that needs to be filled, and you are filling it. She needs to here the truth from you it is always the best way, see, your already paying for lying. Take time to really talk it over, she needs to talk to someone not necessarily you about her friend she needs to remember the good things instead of remembering that they are gone, so she can move on. Telling the truth and having a big truth talk session might clear the air, you and she needs to move on. good luck.
2007-02-26 14:45:07 · answer #4 · answered by kelly m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry for what? Being REAL, you have a life time to be serious about a chick, enjoy life now and stop questioning yourself about this girl. You have this strange feelings about her for a reason. This sounds like one of those chicks that will try to ruin you for the rest of your life. You see it all the time on TV and the news. Nip it now.
WHEN KEEPING IT REAL GOES WRONG
2007-02-26 14:41:35 · answer #5 · answered by sodgirl6763 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok you had to do what you had to do. It's what you feel you should have told her no, no matter how she feels you going o be hurt etheir way because she is still going to be bother you, So don't call her and apologize because then she is going to think you care and start annoying you again. So you shouldn't feel bad,\
Jewel T
2007-02-26 14:42:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on ... some girls get attached emotionally really easy. Your doing the right thing by letting her go. She will be fine. You may need to continue saying no ... that's ok. This is life and sometimes it's not easy doing the right thing.
2007-02-26 14:54:05 · answer #7 · answered by Summer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would call and apologize and tell her that you're not ready for the next steps yet. she needs to grieve and being clingy isn't going to help her. you both need to move on with your lives before you grow together with each other.
2007-02-26 14:41:08 · answer #8 · answered by amymrgrt 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
oh hell no u just dont let her grive, call her and explain to her than u just want to be friends, just be honest okay?
2007-02-26 14:39:11 · answer #9 · answered by angelof2004@sbcglobal.net 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u didnt do anyhting wrong!
u should tlk to her...dont apolize though! Stay Strong...
remember..only appolize one time..if shes still not happy then move on
2007-02-26 14:39:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just tell her to go and boil someone else's bunny!
2007-02-26 14:40:26 · answer #11 · answered by Birdy is my real name 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋