ok, there is this guy at work that is totally adorable, totally goal oriented, totally into me,....and totally taken. he's had a girlfriend now for 3 years. he is 18 years old and i am irrevocably in love with him. i've been the "other woman" now for about 6 months and now, he won't talk to me....he said he doesn't want to hurt me anymore....obviously he isn't going to leave her...but i'm in love with him....my question is, how do i get over him?? or is there a way to get him to talk to me again???? is having a little bit of him better than not having him at all??? its killing me to vision my whole life without him...HELP
2007-02-26 06:30:03 · 19 answers · asked by ambitious_highschooler 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh LORD! GIRL GET IT TOGETHER!! Take a step back and breathe. You are letting this man control your every moment in life. If he's cheating on his gf with you, he doesn't value you highly so you need to drop him like a bad habit. Girl i feel sorry for you. Love yourself first befor you claim to love another, because if you dont you are simply sacrificing yourself and devaluing your worth. Once again, I say, GET IT TOGETHER!!
2007-02-26 06:35:54 · answer #1 · answered by boriqualoca17_99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wish i had an anser 2 that! the man i love is totally taken 2! but u hav 2 let go even though it seems imposible 2 liv without him now itl get btr wit time! being the othr woman 4 the rest of ur life hurts more than getting over it!
2007-02-26 14:39:10 · answer #2 · answered by Dal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, this happened to me once! I really don;t know how I got over him, I just know I needed a lot of time to get over him. Maybe you should go out more often! Men never knows how to respect a woman, until someone leaves him!
But if you want to make him to talk to you again, you have to talk to him, to tell him you would like to be friends to him if he doesn't want to have something more than that with you!
2007-02-26 14:42:53 · answer #3 · answered by Hannah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is something U can control get in to reality and don't hurt your self and don't let him use you anymore.
If you keep going after him there is going to be problems for him and you specially since you guys are working together get involve with somebody else move on or you will find your self with a lot of regrets in life, after words.
2007-02-26 14:39:05 · answer #4 · answered by PR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will pass. People can get over anything if they really want to. It is better not to interact with him. He may be in love with his girlfriend and it may not work out, he is young and I am assuming you are too. Get over. Date others, move on, and don't see him again!
2007-02-26 14:34:27 · answer #5 · answered by Summer H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really are in love with him...then talking to him will only make you think you have a chance with him. It will only cause you more pain.
Trust me...been there...
yet again...I let myself hurt. I know how hard it is to just let someone go. I can't do it. It's easier said than done.
2007-02-26 14:34:45 · answer #6 · answered by lkjgfyfukh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over him. He will never leave 3 years for you. Sorry but its true. You need to hang out with your friends and find another man to have a fling with.
2007-02-26 14:33:48 · answer #7 · answered by Jenny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you honestly think that even if he did leave his girl, he would stay faithful to you? And how would you like it if you had a boyfriend that was cheating on you with another girl? Sounds to me like you both need to learn a thing or two about right and wrong.
2007-02-26 16:38:38 · answer #8 · answered by Monica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly just leave him alone, dont talk to him or anything. He isnt leaving his girl, and you deserve better than that...just move on and find someone who you can have all the time and not part of the time
2007-02-26 14:34:11 · answer #9 · answered by lil_luman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he has a girlfriend for 3 years and You should respect him and his life.... and you sure need to moved on and I am sorry that you have to learn the hard and hurtful way... but you got to look after yourself and I am getting feeling that he will marry to this girl... and it gonna really kill ya... so really move on and forget about this person...
2007-02-26 14:36:04 · answer #10 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋