he keeps asking me and calling me literally 10 times a day! and i keep telling him no but he wont take the hint! what should i do??
2007-02-26 06:27:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you find he is going to hurt you or u are fearful, call the police, he can turn into a stalker..
2007-02-26 06:30:58 · answer #1 · answered by Arely 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It seems as though being nice isn’t really getting him to understand that you’re not interested in going back out with him. Now you have to be blunt and even if it hurts his feelings come out and tell him that you don’t want to be bothered with him. Let him know that you’ve tried to be nice about the situation but he wasn’t getting the hints. Tell him that you’d appreciate it if he stopped all contact with you, tell him that you don’t want to have to change your number or even contact the police but you will if he doesn’t stop the contact. You may also want to start ignoring his calls and if you answer and it’s him just hang up. Best of luck with your situation.
2007-02-26 06:42:14 · answer #2 · answered by Pisces Princess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If being "nice" doesn't work - be blunt. Be honest and tell him you don't want to go out with him, and ask him in no uncertain terms to STOP contacting you. There's nothing wrong in putting your foot down. If he keeps calling even after that - it is called "harrassment", and you should file a restraining order.
2007-02-26 06:32:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want you could change your number or I would just tell him not to call unless he is not going to ask if y'all could go back out or just plain course him out but not in bad way just say quite calling, This guy really seems to love you really bad, Lol.
Jewel T
2007-02-26 06:34:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is turning into a stalker. Tell him that if he doesn't leave you alone, you are going to have to go to the police. This guy sounds disrespectful and nuts. Protect yourself, even if you think it might be foolish. Crazy people do exist in this world.
2007-02-26 06:32:15 · answer #5 · answered by Summer H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same thing happpen a few years ago. We dated for almost 2 years. he continued to call me for 6 month. Finally I realize that he was just trying to get me back. So I told him...
"you have to get over me, don't call me again until you are 100% over me"
that was 4 years ago..so either he never got over me or he realized that he there was no reason to call me if he was over me!! I haven't heard from him since!!
2007-02-26 06:46:51 · answer #6 · answered by Amy B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to go away...stop being nice about it...he needs to get it through his head that you dont want him, so be mean hopefully then he'll take the hint
2007-02-26 06:31:39 · answer #7 · answered by lil_luman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change your number or go out with someone else he will notice this and then leave you alone
2007-02-26 06:32:08 · answer #8 · answered by kittiebann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
easy just tell him you are with someone else and you want to be with that person get one of your guy friends to pretend to be your guy that helps alot more than you think
2007-02-26 06:34:25 · answer #9 · answered by mayra v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should flat out tell him we aren't goin' out and its over...but say it in a nice way. my ex does that alot to me he says love you every day to me i get mad so just tell him were over
2007-02-26 06:31:45 · answer #10 · answered by dark_angel9579 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋