a year ago i was not over catching my x cheating on me and i ran into a mutual freind of his,we clicked instantly.he held me that night till i slept and was such a gentlman.i saw him a couple months after and he told me i was killing him,my x was freaking out that we liked eachother so he backed off and kept his distance.so here i am a year later still wondering about him,so i called him last week and was straight up w/him by saying he was eating me alive,he said it was mutual and he thinks im beautiful and he had no idea thats how i felt,but he has been seeing someone for a month now and he said he was only being honest and fair to me and continued to tell me how beautiful he thinks i am,so i was confused as to whether he likes me or was letting me down easy,so i told him(in respect towards the girlfriend)that he had to tell me to let it go,he said no,i told him he had to,he said he cant and told me again how he thinks im so beautiful.what is going on here?
2007-02-26 06:26:21 · 7 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i see a big game, and you are the one being played. just move on from either of these fellas. you're being taken as a fool....just go on with life and find a better man.
2007-02-26 06:39:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
errr.....your questions are repetitive i think I've answered this one already. What do you want to hear?¿ i can't tell you anything you haven't heard already. I think i know what you are going through. Your ex cheating on you ****ed you up something fierce. You are the type of person to not let go of pain even if it is your Best interest. This friend of yours that held you all night how good of a friend is he? he seems like he wants more, since this guy that held you is with someone there isn't much you can do now is there? unless you want to cause a whole bunch of problems. too little too late i would say. I don't know though the only thing i can tell you is you have to move on before you destroy yourself anymore than you already have, if you keep doing this there won't be anything left to destroy, i think you are worse than most because I've seen this question before, and a few other questions that revolve around the same subject matter. it's time you let go and move on. take care of yourself
2007-02-26 14:36:35 · answer #2 · answered by aphotic nostrum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kelly~ looks to me like your crush has player tendencies. If your ex was cheating on you, then be careful dating his friends... after all, birds of a feather flock together. He is taken right now, but he thinks you're beautiful... ok. It's time for him to make a decision. It's either you or her. Don't let him play you. Decide how you would feel about him leaving his girlfriend for an upgrade (i.e.: you). I think that's a sign of trash, but even if you are in the mood to play with fire, want a sugar daddy, or just a fun date- don't think about getting serious with someone who trades his girlfriends like a used car salesman... men like that are dime a dozen. Why keep something so cheap?
2007-02-26 14:47:59 · answer #3 · answered by Adeline 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's only been in his current relationship for a month, you could still have a chance. You need to stop wasting time and just tell him how you feel and that you're interested in seeing where it could lead.
Let him know 'the ball is in his court' and see what happens.
Don't see him until he's cut the other chick loose.
2007-02-26 14:34:30 · answer #4 · answered by 1912 Hudson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to let it go! he has moved on . He has a girlfriend and evrything feeling are a crazy emotion and it hard to change the way you feel over night
2007-02-26 14:39:25 · answer #5 · answered by aelt15aelt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's going on? Ya'lls timing is WAY off...are you cheaters? Yes or no answer, and can you both live with the consequence.
2007-02-26 14:31:34 · answer #6 · answered by ndngrlz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should move on. he's just 'owning' you.
2007-02-26 14:30:22 · answer #7 · answered by vincent m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋