he says he will call back in 30 minutes but he never calls, sometimes I wait all day for his phone call then when I do call him he asked me why I dont call him. What should I do?
2007-02-26 06:23:33 · 25 answers · asked by Kathy R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is all too common. You have two choices:
1. Accept the fact that he does not consider calling you a priority. It may be because he is absent-minded, or it may be because he has different priorities than you do. For some guys, talking on the phone can be a chore, no matter who is on the other end.
2. Dump him. If you can't accept the fact that he doesn't call you, then accept the fact that he can't and won't change and move on. It stinks, but it will save you a lot of trouble and time.
2007-02-26 06:51:33 · answer #1 · answered by Jordan X 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be one of those naturally flaky ppl who always have too much going on so wind up forgetting things. If this doesn't seem to fit his personality, then it sounds like he's trying to weasel his way out of calling by placing the blame on you ("Why haven't YOU called me?!") Please don't wait around for his calls. I used to do the same thing then realized I wasted A LOT of time waiting around for other people, which really isn't fair to you. Either call him or go out and have fun and maybe call him later.
2007-02-26 06:28:59 · answer #2 · answered by Christabelle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he gets very busy... and loses track of time... most men do... don't turn into one of those compulsive girls by calling him in 31 minutes.... just give him a little time to call you back and if you had plans or you have things that you need to talk to him about, then give him a call if he hasn't called you back... just make sure you give him a chance to call you back...
2007-02-26 06:29:36 · answer #3 · answered by ***Girlie Girl*** 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give him an ultimatum
You call him once he calls you once.
If he doesn't call then he's not interested in talking to you.
When he wants you let him wait a little,
He'll soon get the message that you're not his maid and sevant.
If you don't get hold of the situation you will always be treated like that.
2007-02-26 06:28:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what the hell? he's retarded.
ok so sometimes when i say i'll call my bf i really just get caught up in something else and forget or i'm busy. but for him to do it all the time is weird. and hten he gets mad at u for not calling? when he DOES get mad at u u should be like "ummm last time i checked u said YOU'D call ME back. so i'm not gonna sit around waiting for ur call i have other things to do to. ur not a king is houldn't have to praise u" lol i kno it sounds gay but it's rude nad he deserves that if he's being rude to u.
2007-02-26 06:30:08 · answer #5 · answered by shaleeka j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to talk to him then call him. My boyfriend does that sometimes but i dont think nothing of it. If you want to talk it won't be no big deal to pick up the phone and call.
2007-02-26 06:28:16 · answer #6 · answered by Jenny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This happened to me once, the guy was clearly playing head games with me. I found out later, he was stringing me along. This may not be happening but talk to him, face to face. What does your gut tell you? My gut told me this, I hung on for about 6 months until it just crumbled-
Good thing because I met the greatest guy ever that calls me every minute (texts) when we are apart, he's my Hubby of 2 years.
You deserve to be understood.
Good Luck, friend.
2007-02-26 06:29:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him.....if he says he will call and doesn't. Next time he calls-DO NOT SIT AND WAIT FOR HIS CALL. If he calls someone will give you his message. This guy seems like too much work.
2007-02-26 06:37:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Discuss it with him, even if it means documenting the events of a day to show him how he's making things hard for you. Give him time to resolve it. Once he's willing to accept his responsibility, you're on the right track. If he dismisses the issue, maybe he's not the man you want to invest you energy in. Good luck.
2007-02-26 06:28:35 · answer #9 · answered by firsttime 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him your feelings about how you feel about him not calling. Obviously him telling you that he will call, and he doesn't just lets you down. If he can't respect your feelings and still doesn't want to pick up the phone, then it's his loss. You deserve someone who will actually enjoy talking to you.
2007-02-26 06:31:45 · answer #10 · answered by poetry_dreamer2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋