We have been together for a while and he has had this problem since we met. We are so compatible in every way except the sex part. He doesn't get totally hard. It really is causes me pain and I don't know what to do. I can't get mine which causes me to get upset. I don't want to hurt him, but I don't know what to do. Any suggestions on vitamins or supplements (besides Viagra) that might work for him? Is this a common issue men have? I have never encountered this before and am very confused. Sex is a very important part of a relationship and I don't want it to be the reason ours ends.
2007-02-26 06:16:50 · 8 answers · asked by augustslion 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
The problem is not you. If the man is older, there are all sorts of reasons he could be having problems. There are aids out there including one that fits over his tool and makes it hard. Explore the options before throwing in the towel.
2007-02-26 06:26:11 · answer #1 · answered by loryntoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope it's not you. Sometimes men have what is known as "erectile dysfunction" and yes it is very common, especially if the man has been drinking considerably before having sex or if sex is too often (yes there is such a thing). I suggest abstaining from sex for awhile Although sex is an important par of a relationship it should be a "VERY" important part, it should not be more important the the TOTAL relationship itself. If your realtionship is based primarily around sex then you don't have a relationship at all.
2007-02-26 06:39:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most likely cause is he masturbates too much. As was said, there is no such thing as too wet for a guy. If a guy masturbates too frequently, he becomes insensitive to any touch other than his own. this leads to an embarrassing anti climatic experience for you and him both. Confront him when you feel comfortable enough and ask him to hold out on the self play for a week and he should be back to normal.
2016-03-16 01:10:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guy dating issues hard sex tells lie
2016-02-01 01:50:22 · answer #4 · answered by Charley 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he has erectile dysfunction or you have a really disgusting body. Some guys simply have a hard time getting it up if they don't have anywhere decent to put it. I have known guys that had to be drunk to have sex with their girl friends.
2007-02-26 06:24:38 · answer #5 · answered by Skiing in March 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i doubt he lying when he says it is not u, he probably embarrassed by his inability to perform! chat with him and if he comfortable go to the doc, there are many things which may be acusing his erectile dysfunction and equally as many options for treatment, if there a sexual health clinic nearby u might try that too
2007-02-26 06:41:48 · answer #6 · answered by sydneygal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stress can cause it, so can age, but i don't know how old either of you are. there are many factors but i can't tell you any miracle cure, but i can let you know that it is more common than you think
2007-02-26 06:26:22 · answer #7 · answered by Cherie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's you.
2007-02-26 06:23:57 · answer #8 · answered by Dawg G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋