2007-02-26 06:08:55 · 45 answers · asked by JENNIFER C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that's waaaaay too young. I lost mine at age 20 and I still don't think I was ready for it. (sigh). I guess it's too late now. Losing your virginity is supposed to be something very special that you share with someone you love. At the age of 13, I doubt either one of those happened for you.
From now on, respect yourself and your body. You'll go a lot further in life if you do.
Good luck!
2007-02-26 06:15:03 · answer #1 · answered by YSIC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think that you're pretty damn slutty and easy and all the guys at your school know it! You probably dress too much on the slutty side, which is absolutely not appropriate. Even if you don't dress "slutty", you probably dress wayyyyyy too old for your age! I'm 23 and I'm waiting until marriage. Virginity is not something to be taken lightly. I don't care how good it feels and obviously its natural to have such needs, but My God...you're 13...don't you have any control over yourself?! I can only imagine what kind of nasty diseases you're gonna get if you keep this up, which you most likely will!
Your parents must be soo proud!
2007-02-26 06:21:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound like losing your virginty is a cool thing at such a young age. Its not that cool, if people heard this, they would think you're a slut or hoe. And you could get pregant, if your ready to take on that responsibly, then go for it. You'll see hwo tough it is. I bet your regreted it and that guy you had sex with only wanted sex from you and nothing else and anything else you want to broadcast for the entire world to hear? God, i depise people like you...and i read ur profile, you're hispanic....no wonder.
2007-02-26 15:05:23 · answer #3 · answered by Maka Nani 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like that is something to be proud of? That is the only gift a woman has to give away "one" time only...now for you that special gift is gone...and at 13.
How many more "boys" are you going to have sex with before you become an adult and are you going to broadcast that too?
Enjoy your youth...the things of childhood or pre-adult which ever you choose to call it...because before you know it you will be an adult and look back at this and probably wish you would have waited.
Waited as in waited to give that gift to someone you plan on spending the rest of your life with. At 13 you don't know who you will end up with. Jeese, you have given away a major portion of your childhood by having sex so early, but are stuck still being a child for at least another 5 years.
Sorry to ramble...as far as your question goes:
I THINK YOU SHOULD HAVE WAITED TO MAKE THAT DECISION UNTIL YOU WERE OLDER...but that is too late now.
I wish you luck and hope you are not free and easy with every "boy" you meet...cause right now that is what they are, "boys"...it will be quite awhile before anyone your age is grown up.
I am NOT putting you down...it just makes me sad to think at 13 you seem to be proud of giving away your virginity.
be cool...
2007-02-26 06:20:35 · answer #4 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just make sure that you are ready for the sex world because there is a lot more to it then just opening your legs. As you experience sex make sure you remember that your body is a Temple and the only one you will have.
As an older person (28), there is nothing like the fist time, it is a moment you will NEVER forgot. Just hope it is a good memory. I lost my virginity at 15 years old and to this day I remember it. At times i wish i had saved myself for that special person but in my eyes the person I gave my virginity to is special just for that reason.........Plus I could not change it. Once your virginity is gone there is nothing you can do about it, it is already gone.
2007-02-26 06:19:40 · answer #5 · answered by Lady 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I lost mine rather young as well. The one thing I do know is sex pretty much sucks until your body is ready physically to handle it. As well as him having the experience and thoughtfulness to make it about you too.
Bottom line is, what's the point if the guys only wants to satisfy himself and it is no good anyway because your body is not ready?
Don't be ashamed though, that will do no good. Look at it like a lesson learned.
2007-02-26 06:17:57 · answer #6 · answered by havasufem 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow 13? WTF! I wasn't even thinking about sex at 13. I thought boys were cute but that's extent of it. Gees What is this world coming to. That is way too young. But since you've already done it, please tell me, you're taking birth control as well as using condoms. You can never be too safe! And please keep in mind, a child is not an accessory, it is a life time committment of time and money, and at 13, i doubt you can make enough money to properly care for a child. Concentrate on finishing school and getting a college degree because you can get no where without one.
2007-02-26 06:20:24 · answer #7 · answered by boriqualoca17_99 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sad because sex is a wedding gift but not too let to stop youself from hurting the one you want to spend the rest of you life with. Just imagine being able to tell you spouse on ur wedding night sweetie i saved the best gift for you my viginity, thats what is specai. I'm sorry, you have alot of soul searching
2007-02-26 06:56:16 · answer #8 · answered by samantha g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lost mine at 14 and it was the biggest mistake of my life i wish i never did it. Now i'm in love with a guy and I wish he could've taken it. It means so much more when someone you will spend the rest of you life with takes it from you.
2007-02-26 06:14:10 · answer #9 · answered by Jenny 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
waaaaaaay too young. think of it this way when ur a mom and ur 13 yr old daughter tells you she's fu*ing, imagine how disgusted and ashamed you'd feel. also think of how embarassed you'll feel on a date wit a guy you're really into and he turns and asks how many partners you've had and when you lost it. two words loose p*sssy!
2007-02-26 06:21:18 · answer #10 · answered by ponypuffgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋