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Question

What do you guys find sexy in a woman and what do you like talking dirty about?

Answer 1

What do we find sexy? EVERYTHING!!

But you're probly looking for specifics. It's not all boobs & butt if that's what you're wondering. And those parts get less important as men age.

For me, attitude is the sexiest thing about a woman. If she has the right attitude everything about her will be sexy. She doesn't have to be a sex fiend or a madonna/whore type. She can be any way, as long as it's real, true to herself.

Eyes can be the switch that turns on a man instantly. Blue, green, brown or anything else, it doesn't matter. Some women seem to have the look naturally, others have had to learn it. It's a way of signaling that you're interested without staring. Happy or nasty, mean or gentle, when we can see your emotions in your eyes, it's sexy.

I'm hot for legs. Long, strong, tanned and muscular are my favorites. Well proportioned is the way I think of them. If the calves are too skinny or the thighs are too big it throws off the deal. The best are in proportion to the body and to the upper and lower leg. I want to see the definition of your muscles when you walk. I'll watch to see if the quads in the thighs pull into a tight mass of muscle when she shifts her weight to that leg and then see if there's that distinctive crescent of strength in the back of her calf when she pushes off with that foot. If I can't see the back of her legs, I'll check if there are the long straight ripples on the outside of her calf from the flexing of the tendons.

Of course I usually have to see the legs to appreciate them (believe it or not in some women I can tell how nice their legs are through their pants). Short skirts shout for my attention, and give me the chance to examine everything but the very tops of her thighs. That may be why I like minis especially b/c my mind follows the legs right up under the skirt to the ultimate prize on top.

But long skirts can do it for me too. Long and elegant with a slit teases my eyes to dare and discover if how great her legs really are. Long and tight show off more than you might think. Mid length and tea length are hard to pull off for most women but some can do it. Usually ablove the knee is sexier than below the knee.

I'm not stuck on high heel shoes, but a good arched foot can be a turn on all by itself. Something about the length of it being stretched out makes me think of a woman's torso when she's stretching or riding cowgirl style. But most shoes are fine. A good pump can make a woman's toes sort of resembling a short skirt. But opposite I guess. The ones that show just the first half inch or so of the space between her toes draws me in. Tennies or sandals can be sexy with the right outfit. Same with bobby socks, knee highs or fine hoseiry. I prefer the nylons that are held up by a garter of course.

Some sandals that wrap up a woman's calf work for some guys. Those knee high boots in winter score points. But ladies, men don't really care whether they're strappy sandals, open toe or reveal the heel. That's more what women talk about. As long as it looks good, we're happy (but don't expect us to explain why)

The way she walks has a lot to do with sexiness. A confident stride almost always looks good. Sometimes a little hitch in her step works too, especially when watching from behind. It can be mesmerizing to be walking in the same direction as a woman with low rise pants or jeans and a top that leaves the top of her hips exposed. You just watch that wiggle that makes the top of the jeans rise and fall rythmically with every step. But don't think we want everybody to look like a supermodel or have the same best attributes. Just be yourself and play up your best parts.

What guys talk about are usually the obvious parts tho. T&A, pretty face, nice legs or maybe a sexy exposed back. It's not in the guy handbook to talk about hair much or makeup or whether the skirt matches the blouse. It's usually not a detailed report that guys give to each other. More like Did you see those xxxs? Nice xxx! I could almost see her panties! Do you think she's wearing a bra? She's got a see through dress on! Love them spiked heels. Plenty a cleavage on the one. Camel toe! It must be cold in here. Man I'd like ta bend that booty over a... Stuff like that. The more high minded of us wouldn't do more than make eye contact with a buddy and raise an eyebrow or nod in their direction. What we all do tho, is remember that sexy woman later, when we can do something about it.

Answer 2

I find girls sexy if they smile a lot and move gracefully. I also love big pretty eyes and a woman who loves to laugh. I actually find niceness and kindness very sexy.
I don't talk dirty, I don't use bad language and I don't find that sort of thing at all sexy. If someone wants to do something with me then they should ask me nicely and directly rather than just say filthy things.

Answer 3

A woman that has an open mind and is willing to try and do anything. Even if she has tried it with someone else but didnt like it with them and tries one more time for me says she really cares for me. Talking dirty depends on the situation.

Answer 4

lol never answered one of these types of questions before but i give it a go :)

well one important thing us guys like is a confident woman, we dont all like confident women. i like shy girls too but a confident woman who knows what she wants is always 'sexy' because she can take control of things.

we like talking dirty about anything dirty.. nakedness.. how your not wearing anything underneath. how you want him in your bed.. erm what stuff feels like. you have to be abit creative there tbh :P

but most importantly what makes a woman sexy is her hair, her eyes, what she wears (her dress style) and her voice :)

us males are also obsessed with the female body, its hard but some guys just cant keep their eyes off. one place being the chest and the other well thats just as obvious.
thats enough from me i think.

Answer 5

i really like the legs of a woman,and not just!but is nice talk dirty just about a couple minutes before have that dirty sex!

Answer 6

we find everything sexy in a woman, and bout talking dirty, use your imagination, id like to eat your p***y, n lick your t**s, stuff like that, now thats dirty talk, catch d drift,

Answer 7

4 me the woman i find sexy r the ones who know how to carry themselves,its the ones who r just genuine and nice.thats what turns guys on,they dont have to try b sexy by seeking attention but by just being simple and kind and guys notice that and get turned on by that.

Answer 8

talking dirty is about all about sex, not the act, but stuff like,, I am not wearing panties, or show some bra, cleavage, thong, make a joke of it,, that all revs out engines,, take you time popping a cherry off the stem etc..

Answer 9

Hmph her personaility believe it or not and I dislike talking about the following

Answer 10

We like the big boobs and we always talk dirty about the vagina.
I like good looking girls with big boobs and that likes having sex!