2007-02-26 05:44:23 · 19 answers · asked by lizzy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yea, why would u want a guy who lies and cheats. think about it.
the whole point of dating is to find the RIGHT guy to settle down with. and if u know hes not the right guy who will respect, love, and cherish you then why waste your time.
RESPECT, loyalty, and TRUST are the most important parts of a relationship.
dont be stupid. its so sad to see girls blame themselves and try to "get him back" when the guy is SO NOT WORTH IT. plus, u can never get someone back until he wants to come back and makes the decision by himself
2007-02-26 05:49:15 · answer #1 · answered by jeannes85 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You found out that your boyfriend is cheating on you with another girl and as a matter of fact he has another girlfriend. You need to confront him and let him know you know what is going on and you want to know why and how did it get start and why did he not talk to you about, then let him know that it is either the other girl or you but he can not have both. Why would you want him back knowing he has a girlfriend and that there is a chance that he will stay with her and let you go if he has not already had plans to do that in which you would never know until the last minute so you have to think to yourself is the relationship worth saving and go from there.
2007-02-26 13:51:30 · answer #2 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummmm....you dont!! Screw that jerk! Hes been lying to you! Hes been cheating on you! Hes a no good dog! You deserve bettter than that! You're going to let him walk all over you and use you? No., no, no...get a real man that'll treat you with respect and love you and only you! Get rid of the lyin, cheatin jerk! Nothing good could ever come of it...it may onlyl get worse! Get out whle you can. Life too short to waste your time on jerks! Trust me....there is someone better for you out there. You just have to wait, dont rush things. And dont be with someone just so you can have someone. You're better off alone than lettin him treat you like crap and not even care! Go have fun with friends and enjoy being single until the right one or just another guy you want to date comes along! It may take mr right a while to come along, but thats why you date. To see what you like in a man and what you dislike. So you can learn from each experience! What dont kill you, makes you stronger! Try to stay away from the people that will hurt you...they are not your real friends! Good luck...
2007-02-26 13:52:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What would you do if you did "get him back" with you? Would you ever be able to trust him again? Or would you always wonder if he had somebody else you didn't know about? Trust is a very big part of a relationship. If that's gone, the relationship might as well be, too.
2007-02-26 13:50:10 · answer #4 · answered by kj 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Even if you did get him back your insecurities would already be there. And that in itself will ruin a relationship. Besides, if he's not sorry for what he did and isn't asking you back, why get him back. You'd have a better chance of fixing things if he were remorseful. But he's not, so let it go.
2007-02-26 13:49:52 · answer #5 · answered by 00jag 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
baby u aint a sideline hoe. Let him know that its you or her as a matter of fact move on boo u dont need that im pretty sure their are more fish in the sea............
Remeber you ain't a side chick, main chick dont stisfy u either. tell him to please u, u have to be his only chick.
And if u take him back he gon think he can do again and again and you gon be hurt worser then then you are now. Bye girl
2007-02-26 14:01:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let the 2-timer go. Why would you want to be with someone who keeps things like that from you? If he'd been straight up about it that's one thing...but he's a cheater...
...not worth wasting your time.
2007-02-26 13:50:56 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh Lizzy, this guy is a jerk you really need to evaluate the situation better. i suggest more thinking time on the subject, if he has another girl friend it shows you his character, if your o.k. with it then disregard everything i said if not then you should leave his *** cause you deserve way better.
2007-02-26 13:47:27 · answer #8 · answered by aphotic nostrum 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lets be serious here... do you really want him back? Once a cheater, always a cheater. You can do better then that.
2007-02-26 13:47:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why? Why would you want a guy that cheats on you....... Think about it how much does he really care about you if he has other gf
2007-02-26 13:49:25 · answer #10 · answered by <B> 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋