Do you guys think it's possible for someone to walk away from a 7-year relationship and not be bothered by it or be depressed? I broke up with my boyfriend of 7 1/2 years and I don't seem to be upset at all - I'm just wondering if I'm still in denial and if the depression, etc. will hit later.
2007-02-26 05:43:41 · 8 answers · asked by Mikala M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You'll probably have moments where you miss him but for whatever reason you "walked away", 7 years is quite an investment. You shared your life with someone for that duration. To ask if you feel it's normal not to feel bothered or depressed; sure...if you don't love the person or feel the connection anymore, moving on is natural, again, you'll probally have moments where you miss them...in what capacity, only you'll experience. Don't analyze it too much.
2007-02-26 05:55:24 · answer #1 · answered by coolguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I walked away from a guy after almost 10 years. I looked back a few times with regret but once I stopped feeling sorry for myself, I remembered why I dumped him in the first place. It was the hardest thing I've ever done, but he didn't love me and never did.
2007-02-26 05:48:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on what has happened. if it got kinda bad then sometimes when it is over you might even feel relieved. Like a big weight has lifted. and sometimes you get to then point is a relationship when you done your done and all the feeling has left so yes it is possible been ther done that
2007-02-26 05:49:13 · answer #3 · answered by victoria_pixley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you, it is just you are a strong woman. We need more. Life continues with or without him, and you have decided what is more important. Again good for you, life is to short to waste time and time is precious. Enjoy it, to the fullest. You need no one but the lord.
2007-02-26 05:47:48 · answer #4 · answered by ressie re 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it will hit later you've been with him too long to for get about him and he is not going to forget about you
the only way yall would for get about each other is if yall relationship wasn't real or fun at all
2007-02-26 05:50:01 · answer #5 · answered by jasmine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U are probably relieved, move forward and dont look back.
2007-02-26 05:46:57 · answer #6 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you're sick and tired of being sick and tired...just keep it moving if it's how you feel.
2007-02-26 05:47:06 · answer #7 · answered by so_sincere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how odd, just stay it like that, that's good.
2007-02-26 06:02:41 · answer #8 · answered by Symbolic User 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋