There is this guy I always catch looking at me at the gym that I think is really cute. I never see him on Saturdays but this time he was there. He was headed over towards the weights then he kind of looks over where I was and starts walking over there. He was looking at me then when I caught him he went and looked at the tv showing what was on in the media room. Then he walked back over where the weights were. He talked to me once asking when a class was when it was posted right in front of us. He seemed really nervous. Then another time he ran right into me which I think was on purpose cause he laughed about it. He won't talk to me though. I found his profile on myspace when I was just browsing and sent a message letting him know I thought he was cute. He didn't reply back. I know he read it sometime after the gym on Saturday. What is going on?
2007-02-26 05:26:21 · 9 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First make sure if he is a single, maybe he has gfriend and don't want to get closer to you.
Maybe he is a shy guy, like u said hi get nervous, but you see he is trying at least to make attention.
This is just my opinion and I have a small let say advice:
Don't write him mail, use the chance when u will meet him, and say that you were looking around online, and saw same familiar photos, and then you recognize him, and decided to write him mail. Then you can ask him, did you receive my mail or I might recognize wrong person.
This should be first steps to come in contact together and then it will come itself.
Good Luck! ;)
2007-02-26 05:40:55 · answer #1 · answered by AleXxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you get a life. What a waste of time on this obsessive seventh grade behavior. I guarantee that he isn't doing this kind of analyses paralysis juvenile garbage. And wouldn't want a girl with so much INTENSITY in his face. What's going on? I'll tell you. His mind is on sex, which is normal for an adult male. Do some volunteer work and help others. In that way you'll feel better about you, and meet men who are interested in the same sort of things. Habitat for Humanity can change you in a good way, not just the future homeowners. Your whole world will look brighter. You 've got nothing to lose. Wouldn't it be fun to know that you, along with others, are making dreams possible and you are making lots of caring friends at the same time.
2007-02-26 05:53:03 · answer #2 · answered by keepthe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there :)... from what u posted, I think the guy thinks your cute but is too shy to ask you out of even talk to you, choosing to pump into someone just to let them notice you is an obviouse sign the guy lacks social skills when it comes to asking girls out.
I think he read your msg bout him being cute, but didn't do anything about it coz he's shy, u should try talking to him next time when u two are at the gym, just tell him u think he's cute n'ud like to go out for coffee with him. see what happens, coz the guy keeps looking at you n'stuff, it's obviouse he's interested!
2007-02-26 05:43:18 · answer #3 · answered by CupCake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey the same thing is happening to me right now, except the boy is at my high school, i sent him the message on myspace saying wats up and things like that but he did not even respond, i guess he is shy so i think he must like you
2007-02-26 05:39:02 · answer #4 · answered by Laters,baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure, but I do know it sounds like you are going to have to make the first move. First, second, third and maybe more actually.
2007-02-26 05:29:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him face to face.let him kno that you think he is cute and ask him if he wants to get someting to eat after the gym or someting of that sort kno wut i mean?but dont let him get away see if he is a nice guy or not obviously he wants something if he did waht you said he did
2007-02-26 05:31:02 · answer #6 · answered by xxrlhoodratxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a dork.... he probably just likes messing with you and getting you to like him without intention of actually getting together with you.. some really STUPID, LAME, immature guys do this! ignore him!
2007-02-26 05:36:49 · answer #7 · answered by ooh baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is shy. You need to make it comfortable.
2007-02-26 05:47:02 · answer #8 · answered by CG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is shy
2007-02-26 05:30:01 · answer #9 · answered by calisrfgrl1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋