I had asked a question about what i should do about 2 guys; one is a twin of a friend of mine and the second one was a guy from school. i chose the one from school. we had a ton of things happen this past week. after talking, we agreed to be friends, but i know that we're still interested in each other. what do i do from here? i had spent a ton of time with this guy "joe" (the guy from school), but i don't know if i can handle being in the same room with him knowing that we agreed to be friends but still the interest. should i spend the same amount of time with him? or should i spend less time with him?
2007-02-26 05:19:17 · 6 answers · asked by Laura 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YOU ALREADY TOLD THE GUY AT SCHOOL YOU WANTED TO BE FRIENDS,SO GIVE THAT OTHER GUY A CHANCE.
2007-02-26 05:22:10 · answer #1 · answered by roll tide 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's good enough to be a romantic interest, I believe he's good enough to be a friend. It's hard being friends in that kind of a situation when the interest and attraction is still there. At the same time, you don't want to hurt the other guy (the twin), if you decide that you just can't get over "Joe". Just let things happen with the guy from school. Don't push for anything to happen.
2007-02-26 05:22:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I've been through this situation, you need to tell him something, because when ya'll become friends for such a long time, ya'll realize that all ya'll really are, are just friends, and then one of ya'll is going to start finding interests in someone else, leaving the other friend with a broken heart. I was the one with the broken heart, and it would suck if you go through that. So i know your gonna be all nervous and probably a lil scared to tell him, but you should do it, if you truly feel that ya'll can become more than just friends, then tell him how you feel. good luck w/ telling him :o)
2007-02-26 05:22:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Avoiding him might help. But dont make it too obvious. He will come running after you, if you make it subtle enough!!
goodluck.
Depends who you like most. Otherwise go for your twins mate. BUT you need to watch as your twin might not like it and it might be a little disaster at home...
goodluck
2007-02-26 05:23:32 · answer #4 · answered by kitzach 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont play hard to get... Just do what ever you want... Tell him your still interested. Whatever!!! Just put it out... from then on it will feel better.
Jake
2007-02-26 05:22:36 · answer #5 · answered by timmy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just let cupid do all the work for you...go wid the flow
2007-02-26 05:24:57 · answer #6 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋