I use to date my ex for almost two years... we have been broken up for close to two months... im trying my best to move on and im currently dating this new girl whom is so sweet, nice, thoughtful and beautiful.
The only thing is I can’t get my ex off my mind...the problem is I don’t even miss her...she treated me like **** and I don’t understand why i keep thinking about her.
Do you have any advice on how to move on? I don’t want this affecting my new relationship...
2007-02-26 05:15:47 · 1 answers · asked by Kyle W 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Imprinted buddy. Its why the first bet of advice people forget to tell you about love is be damn careful who you love. But people like to play "game" and its all about distrations not true love. So want happens to the people that get caught up accully lovin the person there with... Scars buddy, deep scars. This is going to effect you for the rest of your life sorry there is no quick fix and the only cure is hard to handle. People well tell you many different things here but as far as forgetting them or moving on thats just deinal talking. The heart doesn't forget. Your not going to just move on and it well effect your future relationships there is no doudt there. But don't worry because its time to strenghten that heart. If you and her are not speaking to each other for what ever reason then it is time for you to except your distance, doesn't mean you never think about her or feel for her it just means you except that your bond is light, small or distant. Because lets face it if you guys see each other your not going to feel like your strangers. The bond is their because the heart and mind never forgets. She is a special person to you and thats, that it well never change from that. It just gets easier to stop wanting more. If you guys still have contact then its time to use that contact to better the both of you and your future relationships. This isn't easy because want has a habit of getting in the way. But everyone needs people that know them well. Besides there is something to be said about going thru a two year relationship and still be able to talk and not become twisted by jealousy or want. Not easy thou. It well help you find some security in yourself two, but it takes two to walk that path and if she was as bad as you said, then just accept the scar and wear it with pride and be damn careful who you love so deeply in the future.
2007-02-27 07:52:55 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋