I am going out with the love of my life. He is everything to me, him and my son both are. Lately he's been acting rather distant, and agressive. I know he loves me but I can't understand what makes him mad. He has a tendancy of taking things out on me. Anyway, we got into an argument the other day over something very stupid. I hung up on him, saying, "Call me back when you're not being a b itch!" I was very mad and at the time didn't realize what I was saying. Afterwards I felt bad but my pride wouldn't let me call him back.
Should I call him or expect a call?
2007-02-26 05:09:39 · 9 answers · asked by Mermaid 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be extremely careful. He sounds like an abuser. They are very charming and everything appears to be wonderful and then they start acting exactly the way he is acting now.
Wait for him to call you. If he calls you and cries and tells you that he is sorry and will never do it again, watch out. There is a good chance that he will repeat the events in short order over and over again.
I would suggest that you dump him now and move on. If you decide not to do that now, give him one more chance, not two more, and if you see no change get out fast. The cycle of abuse is not something you want to get caught up in and it never ends.
Take care,
Troy
2007-02-26 05:17:35 · answer #1 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First cool off. Wait for him to call in about a day. If he doesn't then you call him
2007-02-26 05:14:34 · answer #2 · answered by Tha Man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he should call you. he's the one who has been treating you poorly and he needs to call and apologize for his actions. when he is calm enough to call you back and apologize, that will open up room for you to apologize for what you said and for you both to talk about your relationship and why he has been acting the way he has (distant and such) lately.
2007-02-26 05:13:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
must be the pressure at work, he may be taking it out on you.
This is very immature and u need to give him an attitude adjustment.
Let him call you and apologize for his attitude.
If he doesnt call u soon , then he is a real jerk and u need to move on.
2007-02-26 05:15:51 · answer #4 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call him back and apologize for the expletives...
It sounds as if he's not the one who really changed; you starting to say things that you don't realize are offensive.
2007-02-26 05:15:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
its pretty much 50-50. cuz maybe u sholdnt have popped off on him but then again if something is bothering him he should talk to you about and not take it out on you. so like i said its 50-50. call him make a lunch date or dinner and talk things over maybe something has been bothering him.
2007-02-26 05:16:14 · answer #6 · answered by boricuaspot21 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are in the wrong... call him...
my bf and i have gotten into a few heated fights... over really stupid things... i love him more than life and sometimes am shocked my the way we talk to eachother! try to stand in his shoes... then disscuss what is going on.
2007-02-26 05:14:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should call him.
2007-02-26 05:12:57 · answer #8 · answered by kingsgirl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
call him
2007-02-26 05:12:35 · answer #9 · answered by braille 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋