i don't know where the relationship with this boy is going. we're just friends apparently. a couple of weeks ago we had a fight, and he phoned me and asked me did i like him. i said no to hurt his ego. he said that he never fancied me just always say me as a best friend. so that was fine with me. but he calls me constantly now, and we've been out at the weekend, and i think i'm misinterpreting signals but i cant be sure. he phoned the otehr night and said he liked this girl, and said he never wanted to tell anyone about it, but then totally contradicted himself and told me it was his ex he liked. oh god im confused. is there more here, am i just being paranoid. if there is more, how do i get him to show it, and get us together. i really like him. =[
2007-02-26 05:08:41 · 6 answers · asked by confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like he's playing headgames. Boy I'm glad I don't have to deal with those anymore...
2007-02-26 05:12:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You hurt his ego, so now it looks like he wants to hurt yours to make himself feel better. After you made it look like you were a challenge, then all of a sudden he starts calling you a lot more often because his ego is hurt and doesn't like the fact that you said you didn't like him. If you really, really like him then you need to just tell him that because you are sending him the wrong signals. Find a way to show him that you like him, then see how it all goes from there. Good Luck.
2007-02-26 13:17:19 · answer #2 · answered by Phila 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I've learned, and what you can learn, is not matter how mad you are at someone, don't lie to them just to try and hurt them. Its bad karma to try and hurt someone!
Tell him how you really feel. Just come right out with it!!! Its so much better then playing the guessing game. If he doesn't have the same feeling towards you, MOVE ON! Best of luck to you.
2007-02-26 13:13:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's normal in every relationship forgive him in and tell him u love him
2007-02-26 13:12:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU TWO ARE PLAYING GAMES.PLAYING GAMES+PLAYING GAMES=DISASTER!
2007-02-26 13:12:29 · answer #5 · answered by roll tide 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-26 13:12:18 · answer #6 · answered by kf17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋