my boyfriend keeps telling me i'm fat and i should stop eating. i'm not fat..... chunky, but not fat. what should i do?
2007-02-26 05:02:34 · 8 answers · asked by amberiscool_2008 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get rid of him. He is a jerk.
I had a bf who said things like that to me (I'm not fat either, nor am I ugly, mean or anything else he said to manipulate me). Keep strong, I believe in you. It's good that you don't think he is right, because he isn't.
Keep strong girl!!
2007-02-26 05:07:26 · answer #1 · answered by Kerosa S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him. Don't ever let a man bring you down. So what if you were HUGE it wouldn't matter, if you were with someone who loved you for you. He aint worth all this. Tell him to go on and be with someone else. Look if your chunky or not, break up with him tone yourself up and get you someone who looks ten times better then him, see how good that makes him feel. If you do stay with him, and he keeps calling you fat then find things about him and make him feel as low as he has made you feel and maybe he will stop. Good Luck hun!
2007-02-26 05:09:32 · answer #2 · answered by Amber Vance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him. My friends boyfriend used to tell her the same thing and she went through eating disorders and turned to drugs to help her lose weight. Now she's with someone else who loves her the way she is and has never told her that she should lose weight or eat less. Your boyfriend sounds like an asshole and if he's not happy with you he needs to find someone else. As life has it, most people gain weight as they get older, so you'll probably gain some weight and if you stay with this guy he'll just leave you in time if that bothers him. Find someone who likes you for you and would still like you if you put on a few pounds because this guy doesn't sound like he's worth it.
2007-02-26 05:09:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should drop the boyfriend. He should care about you for who you are and accept you how you are. If he can't do that, then he has no business making derogatory comments like that. You could say, "yeah, well you're smelly and I don't tell you that you should live in the shower". That would just be stooping to his level though. Any guy who would say these things to you is being an uncaring jerk, and you deserve better. There are plenty of nice guys out there who wouldn't dream of being so mean. Go find one. You deserve better!!
2007-02-26 05:07:53 · answer #4 · answered by Chimichanga to go please!! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to loose weight? Join a healthclub, get in shape and start eating really healthy. Get a really nice make-over and then leave him! Good Luck!
2007-02-26 05:08:04 · answer #5 · answered by divinity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop him on his insensitive head.then kick him to the curb, he is being very harsh and immature.. chunky is very good,he is blind,
he needs to look on the inside, not the outside, you cant tell a book by its cover hon.
2007-02-26 05:16:12 · answer #6 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Omg, ok consult him and ask him to stop. And if he denies saying anything or continues to say what he wants then dump him. He's not worth your time
2007-02-26 05:08:54 · answer #7 · answered by Caitie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
loose weight
2007-02-26 05:07:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋