Over the last month and now the girl that I am
currently with has found out and left me.
I would like to clear everything up with her since
I really like her. What should I do??
2007-02-26 04:58:53 · 27 answers · asked by Drew 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on. Even if you like this girl a lot and wouldn't ever do it again, girl's hold onto everything. She won't let this go and even if she forgave you, she would bring it up everytime you guys got into a fight no matter what the fight was about. Eventually it would destroy your relationship anyway. And if you cheated with 2 people already, you'll probably do it again and you'll have to go through the same thing so maybe you should just date your ex's or stop cheating and you won't have this problem.
2007-02-26 05:04:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
...Long ago I had sex a few times with my ex wife. We were both still single and divorced at the time though. We never had difficulty in the sex department anyways. It was great sex mind you,...but that's all it ever was was good sex. You can find good sex any where's if you look hard enough for it. It all changed nothing about how either one of us actually felt, especially in regards to being with each other for a lifetime. She definitely has some sensual comfort about her...it intrigued me convincingly. After 25 some odd years later,...she's now working on her fifth husband...go figure. She and I are still casual friends through all of it. Your present gf needs the respect of being exclusive with you,...and only you. If you're too busy banging your former ex's....then maybe you shouldn't have a present gf...period. Hopefully your skills of "apology" and "please forgive me" are up to snuff recently. There's no guarantee she'll ever come back to you now though dude,...but that's the price you pay when your so busy out playing with your ex's. What were you expecting would happen here anyways? Go apologize dude...but expect nothing in regards to getting back together with her. You're reasonably past the point of no return with her. Sorry!!!
2007-02-26 13:16:02 · answer #2 · answered by scott s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One you can start by leaving your you know what in your pants. She had every right to leave you. Not only did she get hurt, but your exes may have thought yall were getting back together and all it was, WAS SEX. So in fact you probably hurt all 3. If you really liked her you would have never cheated. I am just glad she got away before it got worse.
2007-02-26 13:03:54 · answer #3 · answered by Amber Vance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude...you lost that chick. Unless your track record holds out and you'll end up sleeping with her in a few months. In the mean time you have two more available choices. But for now I'd say play it cool and keep it in your pants. You may end up with all three ganging up against you or with you if your lucky.
The Syko Ward
2007-02-26 13:05:29 · answer #4 · answered by The Syko Ward 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you were with your current girlfriend when you did it, then you need to just let her go and move on. You have already hurt her enough. Plus, that is something that is really not ever forgiveable. She will never forget it. Don't pull that kind of stuff with the next one.... The truth ALWAYS comes out....
2007-02-26 13:02:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too late, you shouldn't have cheated on her.One woman is bad but two is worse.How could you,especially when you say you love her.How can you love someone and then cheat on then twice.Not cool man. I wouldn't stand for it either. Maybe it is good that she left no girl or guy even should have stay with someone who cheats.maybe you will learn something from this.
2007-02-26 13:26:07 · answer #6 · answered by deany 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL. Clear things up? Dude, cut your loses. I doubt there's anything you can do to get her back. Anyways, if you really liked her that much you wouldn't have had sex with the Exs.
2007-02-26 13:07:36 · answer #7 · answered by Leohades 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try this: Find her and say to her, " Listen, I am very sorry. There's nothing else I can say to resolve this situation. I am simply sorry. I am currently on standby waiting for forgiveness"
If she doesn't respond, then leave.
Do not call her. Remember, you are currently on standby waiting for forgiveness... If she LOVES you, then your forgiveness will be offered... If she doesn't forgive you, then sir, SHE DOESN'T HAVE THAT MUCH LOVE FOR YOU TO REDIRECT HERSELF BACK TO YOU.
Separation isn't easy to make. So if she walks away and never returns, then she never loved you from the first place...
2007-02-26 13:06:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Build a time machine, go back before you slept with your two ex's and don't be a freaking retard and sleep with them.
If you cared about your new "ex-girlfriend" you wouldn't have slept with your other ex's.
There is nothing you can do unless she wants to take you back, which is highly unlikely, unless she has zero self-respect for herself.
2007-02-26 13:03:03 · answer #9 · answered by forestpirate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be view obviosuy you really dont like if you have sex with your ex girlfriends if you want my advice leave her alone you already broke her heart by sleeping with your ex girlfriends but if you really want to get back with your girlfriend give her some time and then sit down and have a talk with her.
2007-02-26 13:02:45 · answer #10 · answered by airplanes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋