How do u kno if he really is a virgin or not?
so...ive been goin out with this guy for some time now and he claims tht hes still a virgin....hes 20 yrs old so im really skeptical....he knos that im a virgin too....how do i kno if he really is a virgin or not? cuz i kno alot of guys out there r players and will say such things to make themeselves look all innocent and sweet so that they can get in some girls pants....i heard that if a guy cums really fast then hes a virgin...how fast? i dono....any tips on finding out?
2007-02-26 04:55:56 · 22 answers · asked by sally m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do him and if it feels really good, then he has done it before and is not a virgin
2007-02-26 04:58:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
>>How do u kno if he really is a virgin or not?
Only way is a lie detector test. You gonna ask him for one?
>>i heard that if a guy cums really fast then hes a virgin. There is a 0% chance of using this as a determination.
If it really matters to you, and you're not sure, perhaps he's not the guy for you.
>> if it sucks, he was a virgin
Some men always suck at it. Poor determining factor.
>> do him and if it feels really good, then he has done it before and is not a virgin
Some men are naturally good at it. And if you're a virgin, you WOULD NOT know what is good. Poor determining factor.
>> I have never seen a guy lie about never having sex when he actually had.
MANY men lie and say they're a virgin... ESPECIALLY to have sex with a virgin.
2007-02-26 13:12:37 · answer #2 · answered by TLG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my experience most guys will lie about not being a virgin rather than the other way around, cuming fast is not a real good indicator because someone who has had lots of sex might still do that if he was real horny, where as a virgin might not if he say just masterbated... but i think you should be able to trust him enough to believe his statement possibly before you go and have sex with him... especially for the first time... good luck to you
2007-02-26 13:00:25 · answer #3 · answered by Matt H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you can get to prove his status from his talk and action. conciously discuss sex matter with him take note of his responce. You cant give what you dont have, no matter how much books he has read on the matter, he would surely goove if he hasnt been there.compair his answer, by talking with someone else though you have to be care for the person not to have a wrong impression of what you are trying to do.
2007-02-26 13:06:31 · answer #4 · answered by oluwatobi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU WON'T KNOW
If he comes really fast it's because he hasn't had any lately.
First, before you try to figure him out, figure yourself out...
Why are you still a virgin???
Are you waiting for marriage???
Are you wainting for the right man???
Are you scared???
For how long have you known the guy???
Do you know people that know him???
I'm not telling you to go all up in his business and investigate his whole past. But if your asking yourself "Is he telling me the truth?" It's obvious that you haven't known him long enough.
2007-02-26 13:02:03 · answer #5 · answered by Estrella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can never know if he is a virgin.
But the way he deals with it, after sex can tell a lot.
If he is a virgin, he will react to you differently.
But since you are a virgin as well.
You don't know how it could be after sex.
So all the best
2007-02-26 13:33:33 · answer #6 · answered by CG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some ways to know for a woman's radar:
*He is shifty and nervous about getting naked in front of you
*He is excited about talking about sex with you
*He is a little nerdy--a sign that her has not had sex with anyone yet, and has tried to find hobbies, ect. to release his tension. He even tried extra hard to impressd you
*He is very horny all the time.
2007-02-26 13:00:56 · answer #7 · answered by Rachael T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seen any cold sores if soo hes not, and for the comming thing it depends on the person... some times you have to just go on fait or ask around
2007-02-26 12:59:28 · answer #8 · answered by Jesse R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u will know when u have sex for the first time... if hes everywhere and doesnt know what hes doing hes a virgin... men are not born knowing how to have sex... they need practice!
2007-02-26 12:58:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a guy, I've heard/seen LOTS of guys lie about having sex before they actually do.
I have never seen a guy lie about never having sex when he actually had.
That's a new one for me!
2007-02-26 12:59:47 · answer #10 · answered by Slimslimmer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋