Okay i am considering going through with a booty call.The person in question is an ex.bf who a few days ago poped up after 7 months without contact.He drove around my house looking to see if i was around at 7 a.m when usually walk my dog.He works nights and goes to school during the day.He asked me to hang out and then tried to hook up with me even though he has had a gf for 9 months.I said no and felt uncomfortable.Anyway i still have feeling for this guy he as my first everything.He is the only guy i have ever had sex with and i trust him.Should i call him and take him up on his offer?
2007-02-26 04:42:51 · 13 answers · asked by Mandie G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Friends think its a bad idea to give in to the itch in this way.They say if i do this it could get messie or ruin my chances of us ever going out again?
2007-02-26 04:44:22 · update #1
You might consider that he is taking could be taking advantage of you because he was the only guy you ever had sex with. I would worry that if he is trying to hook up with you while dating someone else, what was he doing when the two of you were dating and you lost your virginity to him, or what will he be doing if you ever get back together. I'm with your friends on this one. It is not a good idea, and if he is getting the sex there's really no reason for him to ever want to date you again.
2007-02-26 04:49:04 · answer #1 · answered by Lil Gal 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't fall for it...
Ex-boyfriends with new girlfriends that come back are doing it for one reason: THEY DON'T HAVE SOMETHING THAT THEY USED TO HAVE WITH YOU. Wether it's sex or someone that really understands them, or some type of peace, or whatever it is... they are only back because they don't have it from their current girlfriend...
Doesn't it make you question that if he's cheating on her, he could've cheated on you???
It's obvious that you understand it's a booty call and nothing else... He's only gonna mess with your mind. He's gonna tell you how much he enjoyed being with you and a whole lotta crap... he's gonna make you remember good old times...
and before you know it you're going to be thinking of the possibilities b/w you and him.
Your friends are telling you something for a reason...
It's really hard to open your eyes when it's happening to you, but I bet if this was happening to one of your friends you would advise them the same.
Do yourself a favor... MOVE ON.
2007-02-26 12:56:27 · answer #2 · answered by Estrella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to be the one to tell you-but he is going to use you. He is going to get his kicks and then go back to his girlfriend, and he's probably going to tell you he still wants you and plans on dumping his other girl, but you have to keep the booty call on the down low (secret). The first time you open your legs to this man, he will know what it takes to get your panties off and get you evertime!!!!! And you will be the one ending up getting hurt. because when his girlfriend finds out, she will harass you and make sure you know that's is her man now. Check it, if he cheat on his girl with you, the if he does get with you, he will cheat on you too. Don't think you're special cause he still wants you-it's nothing but a piece of p*ssy to him. Be smart enough to have self respect and leave him alone Going back to an ex is like going back to vomit. He's an ex for a reason-maybe his cheating ways is it???
2007-02-26 12:49:46 · answer #3 · answered by marquella_la_nice 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This does seem a little bizarre that he has a girlfriend and wants to have sex with you on the side. Only for the sake that I dont want to see you get hurt, I say tell him no. You can however, tell him that you enjoy and miss his company...and that you wish he didn't have a girlfriend. See what he says. Tell him he's missing out lol (this is optional of course).
Hope it goes well!!
2007-02-26 13:00:06 · answer #4 · answered by Kyle W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELL NAW!!! Why would you let him hurt you again. i know you said you still have feelings for him, but **** that you have to let him know what time it is. if you keep giving up the *** you'll never get him back. he has a gf what does that tell YOU about his feelings for YOU. hint HE DOSN"T HAVE ANY he just wants some ***
2007-02-26 12:53:44 · answer #5 · answered by golden 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your friends. If you help your ex cheat on his GF that's bad karma.
2007-02-26 12:47:28 · answer #6 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He has a girlfriend and he is an ex...that is a bad combo for a booty call..I say dont do it.
2007-02-26 12:46:48 · answer #7 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Trust your friends. If he's willing to cheat with you - he's willing to cheat ON you. Why would you trust a guy like that?
2007-02-26 12:46:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
go for it, its not like you haven't done it before with him. just remember use a condom, you dont know where he's been for the past 7 months.
2007-02-26 12:47:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
well if he really loves u go for it and if u think it right go for it
2007-02-26 12:48:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋