how do u no if your boyfreind wants you jus for ur *** n not cause he really loves you?
2007-02-26 04:39:06 · 12 answers · asked by SofaKingBored23 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can tell if it's all he talks about. "taking the relationship to the next level" Stuff like that.
If he says "if you love me you'll do it" that's a dead ringer for what he really wants from you.
A guy who really loves you takes in interest in you personally. Not your booty! He'll ask you questions about your life, your goals and ambitions. He'll be into you, not trying to get 'into' you!
Use your intuition as well. A woman's intuition is quite strong. If you think he just wants one thing, confront him about it. If he get's all offensive, maybe you should back away!
Hope this helped and wish you the best!♥
2007-02-26 04:44:18 · answer #1 · answered by ♥LadyC♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. He calls you only to ask if he can come over or if u can come over.
2. He doesn't introduce you to his friends, or if he does, he introduces you as his friend.
3. He won't introduce you to his family.
4. the most you've seen of his place is the bedroom.
5. He doesn't want to take you out in public to nice places.
6. You only hear from him at night.
7. He either rolls over afterwards without a word or gets up and leaves, or asks if you mind going home because he's "really tired and needs to get up early"
8. He avoids any serious or personal conversations, because it can ruin the mood.
2007-02-26 12:47:07 · answer #2 · answered by boriqualoca17_99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him all the booty he wants ! if you dont he will go elsewere? thats a fact ? a satified man is a happy man .when your man is happy you are happy ?cause hell do whatever you want him to do !! most women use it as a weapon ? when they dont have to ?thats the game that women play? boy are they wrong to do that ?when to give up the booty is all they have to do to not worry were there man is at or who hes doing ?women just have it all wrong ?and its just a stupid game they for some reason think they should play ?to the world you might be 1 person. but to 1 person you are the world.
2007-02-26 12:56:16 · answer #3 · answered by schuety1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you spend time together that does not include sex, then he may not be with you just for sex. You should be able to tell if he really cares about you. If the only thing you two do together is have sex...well then that is probably all he wants!!!
2007-02-26 12:45:19 · answer #4 · answered by southernbell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i waited 5 years b4 i gve it up to my bf and he was patient all those years he never pressured me to do it or n e thing.if the guy really loves you it wont be about the sex he'll be interested in other things then that.
2007-02-26 12:48:24 · answer #5 · answered by ~ ★ ~Soulja Girl~ ★ ~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is putting an extra amount of pressure on you and trying to convince you that it is good for your relationship or tells you to "PROVE" your love ,or has sex a lot with you and then leaves very shortly after sex.. it is called "BOOTY CALL"
2007-02-26 12:45:29 · answer #6 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if all he wants to do is have sex with you and then leave after the fact or, if all he talks about is sex or, he only wants to see you when he wants to have sex with you.
2007-02-26 12:44:36 · answer #7 · answered by goddess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way you will ever know someone is yours is to let them go and see if they come back,without detours of course.
2007-02-26 12:43:41 · answer #8 · answered by tom the plumber 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sleep with him and if he dumps you soon after that you basically will have the answer to your question.
2007-02-26 12:43:34 · answer #9 · answered by sinkablehail1978 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont give in and if he still sticks around then hes into you
2007-02-26 12:43:06 · answer #10 · answered by san_ann68 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋