I'm thinking about my wedding entrance. I don't want my fiance to walk me down - I like the idea of meeting him up there. My dad passed away when I was young, I don't have any grandfathers or close uncles, and I have three brothers. I don't really want my mom to walk me down the isle. I sort of want to walk by myself, but I know that will make me more nervous. I know one or two of my brothers could walk me, but I think it would be awkward for me to have two people walking me. I don't think I would like that. I would hate to leave two of them out, though, by having only one walk me. What do you think of this? I'm thinking of having my three brothers standing at the front of the isle, and when I reach them, I will give them each a kiss. Then they will sit down. Also, does your mother usually wait at the front of the isle for you? I would sort of like that, so that I could give her a kiss, also. Please give me some suggestions, thoughts, and ideas. Thanks!
2007-02-26 04:31:14 · 9 answers · asked by beautifullyrachelle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
If you don't feel comfortable in selecting just one brother, then don't. But if you do, it really should be the eldest.
What you have in mind, is fine.
Make sure that morining you have something to eat, even if you don't feel like it. Keep hydrated, no caffine & no alcohol. Take a pee before slipping on your dress.
Before leaving to walk down the aisle, take a few minutes alone. Look at the beautiful image staring back at you from the mirror. Take a deep breath & go.
Make sure you smile, head held high, good posture. Know that you are stunning as you walk towards the man that you will promise to love for the rest of your life.
You'll be fine walking the aisle alone.
2007-02-26 04:55:05 · answer #1 · answered by weddrev 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you have three brothers how long is the aisle you could be passed off part way by all of them or talk to them about your problem ask them which one would like to and tell them you need help in this decision Your mom will be brought up shortly before you and your attendants walk down the aisle she will be in the first pew and at the end of the pew everyone will stand as you make your entrance very easy for you to turn and give her a kiss
Have a happy wedding and don't stress over this
2007-02-26 05:16:58 · answer #2 · answered by Cheryl J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, this is a simple one!
Have one brother walk you in. About 1/3 of the way down the aisle, he'll pass you off to the next brother, then at the 2/3 point, transfer to the 3rd brother. Have your mom kiss your cheek (or you can embrace or whatever) at the top of the aisle before you get handed over to your fiance.
I would recommend having the eldest brother at the 2/3 point of the aisle, and your younger brother start the march, with the middle brother being the first one in the approach (1/3 point).
It would be VERY memorable, and everyone could be involved.
Good luck and congratulations!!!!!
2007-02-26 04:42:40 · answer #3 · answered by Brutally Honest 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would choose the brother I am closest with to walk me down the isle. If you can't choose that way I would start off walking down with the youngest then 1/2 way switch to the next and then the oldest to pass me over to the groom, then the oldest would be the one giving you away.
2007-02-26 04:42:25 · answer #4 · answered by c0mplicated_s0ul 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally think you should let your mother walk you down, only because the pupose of that is cause they are giving up there little girl. Most weddings the father walks down the with the bride.
2007-02-26 04:39:24 · answer #5 · answered by Tammy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not have the oldest brother walk you down..
and you can kiss the younger ones with your mom at the same time
i mean as being the eldest son .. i think hes suppose to take the role of the eldest male.. which would make him able to give you awya
thats what i would do
2007-02-26 04:37:03 · answer #6 · answered by steph 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think your eldest brother should walk you down. But whatever you decide just enjoy your day and remember that its a day to join with your husband. Focus on that.
2007-02-26 04:44:33 · answer #7 · answered by Devdude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you shold have your oldest brother walk you in first, then pass you off to the middle brother, and have your younger brother waiting at the front to give you to your future husband. as for your mom...do a rose ceremony in the middle of your wedding ceremony. the minister will have two roses...one you give to your mom and both you and your fiance give her a hug, the other your fiance presents to his mom...that way they are all included in the ceremony
2007-02-26 06:19:21 · answer #8 · answered by cubanirishgirl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The way you want to do it sounds fine.
2007-02-26 04:36:33 · answer #9 · answered by ee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋