I met a man when he was engaged. We had sex and then 3 days before the wedding he broke with her and then he married me. Now she is applying for a visa to come to this country, to marry another man. I don't want her to come, so I went to the police and said that she send me bad e-mails and that she called me. She did not actually, but I wanted to stop her.
I thought that they would not let her come. I went three
times, and they did nothing. I want her on some blacklist, so she
never comes to this country.
Where else can I complain on her, so that they stopped her visa?
2007-02-26 04:20:28 · 22 answers · asked by kurg 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Immigration
I do not want her because she has a baby and my husband will have to pay child support.
2007-02-26 04:45:27 · update #1
You've got some serious issues that none of us can help you with. If you don't like her, that's one thing - but lying to the police about things that never happened is totally uncalled for and immature.. Not to mention the fact that you can go to jail if they find this out.
You're not a member of the government, so you really have no say in what she does or does not do. As long as she doesn't have a criminal record she can apply for citizenship - and frankly, it's none of your business if she's marrying someone else.
And in all fairness, you're the one who stole her "fiance" with whom she has a child with. So what if your newly stolen husband has to pay child support? He did, in fact, hop on the good foot and do the bad thing with her which resulted in the birth an innocent child who DESERVES the respect of having a father who's able to spend time and money on him.
WE don't want people like YOU here. By the way, don't think that 'your man' won't do the same to you down the road.
2007-02-26 04:23:24 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ Scorpio X 3 · 8⤊ 0⤋
Drama, drama, drama! How to make her stop? You can't. It seems that you are either insecure with your relationship, or afraid that she will seek revenge, or just being selfish towards your stepchild.
You are powerless in keeping foreigners from immigrating to the USA, if I could access a blacklist that would effectively prevent entry into the USA, I would place "all illegals who come across the southern border" on that list.
There is nothing you can do, that's up to the ICE to decide. Besides, our law enforcement have much bigger issues to deal with, such as "all of the illegals who come across the southern border", and I would hate to think that they are wasting time with soap opera stuff like this.
You won the man, move on with your life. If she comes after you, then call the police, and don't try to shut out your stepchild that's a "wicked stepmother" thing to do.
2007-02-26 15:22:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you sound more immature than me and I'm 15. First of all, hopefully you get caught for lying, second of all, if he did that to her, I wonder what he's going to do to you. He has to pay child support or else he's just a dog, but then again he left his lady for some other female 3 days before their wedding, of course he's a dog. Damn, that's sad. Even I know better, I think my little cousin knows better. Ma'am you're sad, leave her alone, she has the right to come here, if you don't like it why don't you and your 'man' leave??
2007-02-26 17:38:31 · answer #3 · answered by Kunggpao 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
OK frist let me clearify you stole her man and won. What is the problem? SHe wants to marry someone else. How dose that affect you? Now just rember that you have publicly gone on the internet and admitied to falsly placing a police report and falsifying doccuments. Just hope she dosent wind up finding out about it and sending you to jail for slander
2007-02-26 12:28:55 · answer #4 · answered by juliannamivida 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Why would you do that? you have serious issues yourself. You shouldn't lie on anyone. Even if I did know of something that would "help" I wouldn't tell you so you could lie on an innocent person. That's what's wrong with our system now. As an American, you should be ashamed. She is coming to marry someone else... LEAVE THAT WOMAN ALONE.
2007-02-26 12:29:30 · answer #5 · answered by La Flaca 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Stop being a meddling witch.
Your husband should be paying child support. How disgustingly selfish.
It sounds like you are the one who needs to be on a blacklist.
2007-02-26 12:54:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
When you dial 911 they have a special ´snitch´ and invention category, dial that one, and tell them that you will sell your soul again, to keep an innocent person away from some crazy psycho madwoman.
2007-02-26 12:26:30 · answer #7 · answered by nassim420 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
What Scorpio said plus if your husband has a child our courts would enforce child support even if she stayed in her own country.
Boy, I hope she reads this!
2007-02-26 16:48:02 · answer #8 · answered by DAR 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
you stole someone Else's man
you lied to the police
I hope he does the dirty on you then you will know how much it hurts what goes around comes around
I hope you get hurt back you must have huge doubts about your marriage anyway
2007-02-26 12:32:07 · answer #9 · answered by miss smidgey 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You can't stop her from coming if she is doing it legally. Your husband should be supporting HIS child whether the mother is in the US or not! BTW, that's called "deadbeat dad" if he doesn't support HIS child.
What you did was very wrong and ILLEGAL.
2007-02-26 13:57:24 · answer #10 · answered by Dizney 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋