There is this guy I always catch looking at me at the gym that I think is really cute. I never see him on Saturdays but this time he was there. He was headed over towards the weights then he kind of looks over where I was and starts walking over there. He was looking at me then when I caught him he went and looked at the tv showing what was on in the media room. Then he walked back over where the weights were. He talked to me once asking when a class was when it was posted right in front of us. Then another time he ran right into me which I think was on purpose cause he laughed about it. He won't talk to me though. I found his profile on myspace when I was just browsing and sent a message letting him know I thought he was cute. He didn't reply back. What is going on?
2007-02-26 04:18:42 · 8 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He read the message on Saturday after the gym.
2007-02-26 04:19:32 · update #1
He seemed really nervous the only time he spoke to me. He asked the question twice after I had already answered it.
2007-02-26 04:25:10 · update #2
he's already getting more than enough
2007-02-26 04:22:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It actually sounds like he does like you and is really nervous. I know when I had a crush on a girl it would take a whole lot of work to build up my confidence to either go up and talk to her or call her at home, then more often than not i'd freak out and end up asking some stupid question like if we had homework due that day or when church was when I knew the answer to the question already.
If he's nervous about it the best way to get him is to confront him. Just go up to him and say "Do you like me? I think you cute." If you show confidence it will make it easier for him to respond. Remember confidence is the key.
2007-02-26 12:30:51 · answer #2 · answered by Advice4U 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does sound like he's flirting. Maybe he just hasn't checked his my space thing yet. Are you sure he knows it was you that sent the message? If you don't hear back from him soon then just play it cool when you see him. Act like nothing happened, just smile, say hello and go about your business. Let him come to you that way you'll know what his deal is.
2007-02-26 12:24:48 · answer #3 · answered by Boo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may not be interested any more than just be friendly and polite. Many people can smile at you and be polite and not hae it mean anything overtly sexual or it be an offer for a relationship. If after all this time he has not come on to you, I would consider that he may not desire this. Shrug your shoulders and move one.
2007-02-26 12:23:14 · answer #4 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys r like that,when you tell them something important they dont have the guts at that time to talk back or reply to the message.If you see him again see if he smiles at you,if he does he liked what you wrote him. if he doesnt look at you that means he is shy and he likes you,but if he is quiet and is trying to avoid you that means that he feels uncomfortable and you should write him saying im sorry to make you feel that way.The only way that he doesnt like you is if he hurts or makes fun of you AFTER you wrote the message.This time write him telling him that if you made him feel uncomfortable your sorry but you want to know if you like him.you can tell a guy likes you by his moods,(its his way of PMSing).I hope everything goes well and you guys become a couple.You will be happy together.Good luck!!
<33always , shasta jane
2007-02-26 12:28:48 · answer #5 · answered by shasta jane 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doestnt like you .but if you went up to him with a pretty smile and perks you boobs out he may change. that is another problem women have that dont know how to approach a guy. guys do it all the time maybe you should try it.
2007-02-26 12:24:52 · answer #6 · answered by shoool2007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try again, he may hisitant to talk to u, u call him in person, broke is nervousness and find out what hewanted. best of luck...
2007-02-26 12:28:09 · answer #7 · answered by patadiakm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its only monday.. but perhaps hes wondering how you found him on mspace :)
2007-02-26 12:23:35 · answer #8 · answered by steph 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋