My ex-girlfriend who I was with for a year and a half just recently took a break from her Current boyfriend (she was with him before me, They got back together 5 months ago) I asked her if we could try and work things out between us and get back together but she's torn between him and me because she says she still has feelings for him but she still has feelings for me.
We just recently hung out this weekend and had alot of fun together, at the end of the night she gave me a hug and kissed me on the lips goodnight, she says she doesn't know what to do and it's not easy to make a decison on who she wants to be with, According to her we're the only two guys she's ever been in love with, I'm lost right now on What I should do and how I should handle this situation, I really Love this girl alot, but I'm in this Whole Love triangle situation and is getting to me a little, Please Give me some advice on what I should do and How I should handle the Situation!
2007-02-26 04:11:17 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her to call you AFTER she has made a decision.
2007-02-26 04:14:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can tell you the truth but the question is can you handle the truth? Now if so, listen closely. Your ex is using you for comfort and comfort only. She do not want either of you, but when you are going through something in your life you start to become undecided, but the whole thing is no one wants to be a lone. Now what you have to ask yourself is, " What do she really want from you". Now know this if nothing else. Time is to short to be wasting, so decide if you are gonna let her waste your time or what! Love is something you both don't have a clue of, and until you know what love is, anyone will be able to lie to you.... Do this for yourself so you wont be hurt. Start with being just friends and don't force the issue of a relationship,,,, cause if you do, then expect the worst. Other then that just have fun sharing each others company.
2007-02-26 04:21:16 · answer #2 · answered by ressie re 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is still involved with her bf. You need to back off... If she breaks up with him, then you can consider getting back together. In the mean time if she has feelings for someone else, I think you should move on.
You should/t be hanging around to see if she throws you a tid-bit here and there. That is demoralizing and will hurt you very deeply.
She has chosen him whether you like it or not.
If she is playing two people, that doesn't say much about her.
Love the one your with or don't love at all.
Get on with your life, I know you must heal, but you need to clean out the closet here, and start fresh with someone else.
You might think she was the girl for you, but not anymore.....
2007-02-26 04:17:48 · answer #3 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Damn, i ain't never been in a love triangle but iam going try to help you out here. You have to sit down and talk to your ex, ask her who she loves more, she can't love you both the same, one has to have more love than the other, tell her exactly how you feel and see what happens. Hope you resolve this and get the girl man, cause i couldn't imagine losing my fiance, (we've been dating a year and a half too) so we have something in common. Good Luck to you, go out and get your woman, love is not anything to lose, if you find it, hold it, keep it, and cherish it forever.
2007-02-26 04:17:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
While she is making up her mind go out and date other girls. Tell her you really love her but don't like the way she's treating you.
Don't just sit back and wait for her to decide. Maybe by meeting other people you'll realize that maybe she's not worth it-the fact that you broke up in the first place means something was not right between you.
2007-02-26 04:21:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok. Honestly I do not think that that girl is even in LOVE!!
And you also need to move on!! I know that it might hurt, but you probably have to. She is just playing a cute lil game with you and the other guy. Why would she go around kissing you or the other guy, knowing that she is not even sure of what she really wants?
2007-02-26 04:18:50 · answer #6 · answered by lialove_18 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would step back from the situation and give her some room to think. If she really wants you she will come to you.
I would be careful, if she is having trouble just committing to one person she may always have problems like that, and if you two get back together she could do the same to you.
2007-02-26 04:16:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
now that you are certain of your feelings for her, ALL YOU NEED TO DO IS WAIT. give her some time to decide. if she really loves you more than her present boyfriend, she will dump him for you. but, if she keeps on telling you that she loves you but she cannot get out of that relationship, then i guess you should stop seeing her.
it's not good to get involved in a love triangle coz in the end there's always one loser. and i bet you don't want it to happen to you, do you. if suppose you've won her already and the two of you are very happy, and then someone comes along and tries to take her away from you...think about it!
2007-02-26 04:48:44 · answer #8 · answered by spye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm...make that triangle a straight line. Take yourself out of the equation. It seems like this girl 'takes a break' whenever she feels like it.... leaving the two of you confused and heartbroken. She was with him, then with you, then with him, now taking a break from him and seeing you.
She probably needs to take a break from seeing anyone at all. She doesn't know what she wants and I wouldn't wait around for her to decide.
Sorry, but I wouldn't want to be anyone's potential second choice. Besides, don't you worry about what all this bed hopping she's doing may transmit to you??? Nasty...
2007-02-26 04:22:44 · answer #9 · answered by moe497 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Will you take the advice if we give it?
You should leave her alone. Let her come back to you. Don't see her, don't talk to her, don't have contact with her whatsoever! If she truly loves you, she'll come back. Would you want her and have in the back of your mind the thought that she is still thinking of this other guy? Leave her alone and see if she comes back to you. If she does - it's for real and you should ride off into the sunset. BUT - you have to really leave her alone for a few weeks. See what happens. Let us know!
2007-02-26 04:15:06 · answer #10 · answered by Jenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one thing that you have to do in this type of situation is "BE YOURSELF", DONT go try out whitting the other fella or trying to pull out impressive stunts, JUST BE YOURSELF, if you genuienly love her, you need to be patience as hard as it sounds but patience is the key to life, a little patience goes a long way, i know you love her, and you probably feel as though you are competing with the other fellow, but jst tell her how much you love her, and try to prove to her how much your actually willing to give it a go? i hope this is of good advice, just be strong, and at the same time dont be taken for a fool, to be honest you cant love two people so i dont know how she does it. dont let ur heart be taken for a ride,
2007-02-26 04:18:13 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋