my boyfriend and me are really in love but his ex keeps callinghim, texting him hot messages, email him than she loves him alot even if she didnt realise it when they were together.. she calls during the night when shes drunk or stand in front of his front door for hours.. he ignores her and never reply but that really begins to annoys me.. what should i do to make her stop? she drives me crazy, insult me in messages; says that she will never stop.. shes really crazy as he already told her he really didnt love her anymore, that he was in love with me, that nothing could change it but she carries on... help!! please what should i or my boyfriend do? that starts to ruin our relationship..
2007-02-26 04:07:07 · 15 answers · asked by missllola 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Change your number....
2007-02-26 04:09:21 · answer #1 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has he actually told her to her face that he wants nothing to do with her again? As in there is absolutely no chance. That was the way I got rid of my crazy, well that and deleting old email addresses and changing my phone number, but still he needs to make it clear to her that they have absolutely no chance of getting back together, otherwise she'll keep coming back.
Then if that fails you're in restraining order territory or you'll have to move away or something, but hopefully it won't get that bad!
2007-02-26 12:12:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Short of changing your phone numbers, moving, and calling the police when she stands at the front door & won't go away ... there's not much you CAN do. She will eventually move on but you have to stand strong in the meantime.
Good Luck!
2007-02-26 12:12:04 · answer #3 · answered by ~April~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel, I went through this last year with an ex and his ex, all because he wanted to see our daughter, there are a few nutters out there, i had to change my number, and my daughters number and email address, i even rang the police, that's all you can do, apart from your boyfriend needs to tell her in no uncertain terms its over, and then ignore her calls, apart from that you have to ride it out and hope she gets over it
2007-02-26 15:40:15 · answer #4 · answered by trouble 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are both doing really well by ignoring her. Change both your numbers and if it gets too bad, you might have to consider taking out a court injunction on her to stop annoying you. Good luck
2007-02-26 12:12:03 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok calm down, first of all before things get worst, you need to talk to him. You need to put it through his head that your feeling like this about this whole situation, explain how you feel about it and that its really pissing you off. secondly talk to her, sometimes its really difficult to get over your ex, I'm sure she loves him just as much as you do and because you got him now, its breaking her apart, sometimes you have to understand this before falling in love is that love can make you do crazy things and i thinks thats what it is thats causing all this, she cant get over him. so talk to her, make her understand and come to terms with her, don't jus go out there and say **** off, no way it only makes matters worse. thirdly i think you should then let him and his ex have sometime to just talk and get things sorted, alone. Let him explain of she don't listen to you, sometimes it really works that way. if nothing of that works, then i suggest you play it hard. change numbers, block her number, change email address, its the only way top get over such kayos. In a way i sympathize for her, i feel sorry for. lets imagine this right, you split up with him, and saw him of wiv anova gal, kissing away, holding hands and eating Mcdonalds, how would you feel, because let me tell you sumfink now yeah, that is exactly how she is feeling now, she is feeling the pain of watching her ex love with another gal. sometimes its better to co operate than cause kayos. if things get out of hand then email me, im here to help my add is
r_begum2006@yahoo.co.uk
I'm sure your wondering why I'm telling you this, its because I was in your position once and i know how it feels. so um yeah and help im here.
i hope this helps
2007-02-26 12:24:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that in this situation you should end up calling the police if this keeps on happening. I truly think that it's nothing else that you nor your boyfriend could do but if this continues you should defiantly call the police.
2007-02-26 12:17:58 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your boyfriend should respect your wishes ring her and ask her why she is doing this with your boyfriend there as well to give you support and also let him tell her to stop ring dont change your number she might get that number in the future dont let her win they allways want what they carnt have in the end
2007-02-26 12:48:47 · answer #8 · answered by trouble 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can block her number. She will go away in time. What he needs to do is just not contact her and she will get the point
2007-02-26 12:10:46 · answer #9 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at least ur b/f is ignoring his ex u could have her charged with harassment keep a record of incidents but don't let her spoil ur relationship good luck
2007-02-26 12:12:50 · answer #10 · answered by mary g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First get his phone number changed, then get a restraining order against her
2007-02-26 12:11:12 · answer #11 · answered by lowflyingcat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋