and stop playing games. I personally think it's mean.
2007-02-26 04:04:51 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Cause their kids.........
2007-02-26 04:08:25 · answer #1 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Now I feel your question is a little open ended. For one, is there an age you are talking about? Do you feel this way about all males? Can you define what a "man" is supposed to be? Do you ever play "games" yourself? While I am not saying it is easy to be a woman, it is not easy to be a man. I love my wife dearly, but it is hard to truly express this in a way I feel conveys my feelings. Guys are just not wired to express emotion the same way as women are. I know that for me I feel uncomfortable "exposing" myself by letting my true feelings come out all the time. I think- what if she laughs? What if it's too dorky? Men are not supposed to be "tender" lest we be labeled a wuss. Society plays a HUGE roll. Rather than asking ambiguous questions, why not ask the direct questions to the guy you are talking about? Maybe he is insecure and scared about being laughed at?
2007-02-26 12:14:58 · answer #2 · answered by Mark B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys that play games are not men... they are boys that just do not know what they want or they are just not ready to settle down. They're all about havin fun. But when they are ready, they will think back and say da*n, I shoulda stuck with her! But, alot of them never really do grow up and mature...its a hard thing to deal with. But you just have to think..will i always be able to put up with this. Are his good qualities overcoming the bad? Will they be loyal and give me the things i need and deserve out of life? So good luck with everything!
2007-02-26 12:10:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being a man has nothing to do with chronological age. Being a man is an attitude that can only be obtained with conscientious endeavor. Are you a Woman to the full extension of the word?
Many things we do to each other are not right but you are the only one who can control how you perceive those actions. You should be in control of your emotions at all times, thus avoiding being hurt at others' wills.
2007-02-26 12:14:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to find a mature guy. We often attract people who are as emotionally mature as we are. Take a healthy look at yourself and see how you may be perceived by others. It's a good place to start since we can't change other people, only ourselves. Then listen to your gut when you first meet a guy. It will never be wrong.
2007-02-26 12:13:12 · answer #5 · answered by Hope 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys play games; only immature ones. Keep looking; you'll find a man eventually.
2007-02-26 12:09:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Women do the same thing. Oddly enough people often act that way because they've been treated that way in the past and are afraid of it happening to them.
2007-02-26 12:08:32 · answer #7 · answered by dreamscapesaga 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because they don't want to grow up and realize what losers they are. Little boys always play games, yup it is mean. They're messed up inside the head.
2007-02-26 12:08:28 · answer #8 · answered by melina 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Find out why your attracting this kind of person. A good man is hard to find ... don't give up until you find him.
2007-02-26 12:09:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
they're all like that mostly, some worse than others, get used to it because it will happen quite a bit, try finding one who doesn't play too many games
2007-02-26 12:12:05 · answer #10 · answered by Wendy C 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Don't put all guys in a catagory. We aren't all the same. Not to mention girls do the same thing.
2007-02-26 12:10:11 · answer #11 · answered by whatever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋